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#30: November 23, 2010, 02:34:32 PM
I have 5 dogs all who live in the house.  We actually joke that they let us live here.  And when we let them in after doing their business outside we have to count because they come in so fast it's just a blur of multi-colored fur.  All different sizes and breeds.  Actually my H had a bad habit of bringing a dog home without consulting me about it first.  If he was 2 hours late from coming home for work I would always say "uh-oh, he must be at the pound" and sure enough a dog would fly out of his truck.  I wonder if way back then he was trying to find something to make him feel good.  So now I'm left with all these animals to tend.  UGH !!
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Re: Love those Pets
#31: November 24, 2010, 12:10:23 AM
2 cats
3 dogs
Guinea pigs
Finches
Parrots
Chickens
2 bearded dragons
Used to have 2 snakes

And no I don't live on acreage wish i did then horses and goats would be added
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Re: Love those Pets
#32: November 24, 2010, 04:43:50 AM
I have two awesome adopted black lab mixes..Marley and Baxter.   
They have loved me unconditionally and I would have been lost without them.   
They know immediately when I am sad and comfort me. 
They have been the warm bodies that snuggle with me at night.
They act super silly and make me laugh out loud.
They have been my hiking buddies.

Baxter is very much like his daddy....extremely smart and moody at times.  He had been abused by his previous owners..so sad..he still has trust issues 8 years later... 

Marley came to us after she was found pregnant on the streets.  Her pups had to be aborted and she almost died.   We got her shortly after I had had multiple miscarriages...my mother in law took her picture to a pet pyschic who knew nothing...the psychic asked if Marley had puppies and MIL said I think, but lost them, then she asked if I had fertility issues.  MIL said yes.   The psychic said Marley chose me because she knew what it was like to lose her babies and we could be there for each other.  She also said Marley missed her pups.   Marley and I have a very special bond needless to say. 

They were surely put into my/our life for a reason.

All this and they ask for almost nothing in return....what a blessing. 

 
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Re: Love those Pets
#33: November 24, 2010, 04:54:21 AM
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The psychic said Marley chose me because she knew what it was like to lose her babies and we could be there for each other.  She also said Marley missed her pups.   Marley and I have a very special bond needless to say.

How incredibly sweet!
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Re: Love those Pets
#34: November 24, 2010, 06:18:53 AM
I like this thread, nothing heavy for a change!

We have three dogs: Paulie is a 12yr old Red Setter/Springer Spaniel cross and a real old dame!  She can still sprint when she wants to but is such a pet everyone loves her.  Louis Fitzpatrick is a 4yr old Cairn Terrier with notions about himself, hence the name (one of my sisters refers to him as Lord Fitzpatrick because he just looks so regal).  He is also the Houdini of the pack and I have spent sleepless nights waiting for him to come home!  Last dog addition is Rocco a 2yr old Yorkshire terrier - he is a complete and utter but lovable nightmare.  He is a real indoor dog and is completely spoiled.  The other two are outdoor dogs who usually only get to come in at night!  I love dogs, always had one or two in my family home and a family just isn't a family to me if there isn't a dog.  Louis and Rocco were rescued dogs. They are all a lot of work though and I do appreciate H did most of that so I think I'll stick with three for now.  We had thought about a fourth earlier in the year.  We are on an acre site and it could absorb another one if I had the time.  Maybe next year when I am feeling less overwhelmed.

We also have a rabbit - Mel (actually Hs pet) and a snake - Beau (D20's pet - though she barely looks at him these days!).  I can take or leave the rabbit and snake but as I am now fully responsible for their existance I must admit I do find myself talking to them.  I just hate to see any animal caged in.  So I mostly sympathise with them.
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Re: Love those Pets
#35: January 02, 2011, 05:10:32 PM
Bumping this thread up in honor of XYZ's new doggie!
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Re: Love those Pets
#36: January 02, 2011, 05:21:22 PM
Yay, x joined us!!!

I haven't seen my doggie for two weeks and I miss her. Bitter sweet, have to say bye to my brother and hello to my doggie. She was with my h for two weeks.
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Re: Love those Pets
#37: January 02, 2011, 07:33:57 PM
Thanks Still..so I got my laptop, my dog.. all that's left are the cowboy boots and the return of someone I miss oh so much. Interestingly, this dog snores just like he did. She looks like my other lab but is so bright and wise and yet sad.

The poor thing is rather plump but she loves chasing balls. Unlike my previous two labs who ate their food in less than 10 seconds..I need to hand feed her right now. She has a very gentle mouth.

Going for walks with her in the last 2 days and having her with me in this big house...oh my, I am so glad. She will help me I know, no matter what the future holds.

My H used to tell me in Hong Kong (because I did not like living there) why don't I go home, get a job (because I have always loved working) and a dog? He said that to me several times when I thought all was well with us......

I do not want him to know I have Kaci..he shares nothing of his life with me so I don't want to share any of my life with him...plus, I don't want him thinking that life is just honkey dorey for me now that he's discarded me..oh when will I ever learn!

You'll be hearing more stories of my Kaci, you'll proably get quite fed up with hearing about her..but hey, I really have no one else here other than the friends I've made in the last 15 months..so you'll just have to listen I guess. Love to all
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Re: Love those Pets
#38: January 02, 2011, 08:32:48 PM
Losing an animal is so painful. I am sorry. They never judge us and are always happy to see us.

To put her picture here go to your profile, then forum profile and then you can uplaod a picture if you have one saved somewhere on your computer.
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"Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see" Hebrews 11:1

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" The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it". Flannery O'Connor

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Re: Love those Pets
#39: January 03, 2011, 12:59:32 AM
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Love the pictures of your cat.

She looks so much like ours. She is called Rosie and she is 19years old, we got her the week after we were married.  Like the proverbial creaking gate, she looks as though she will go on for ever.  She is now deaf, can't see too well, her fur is all knotted and forgets where she is in the house sometimes, waking us up in the night howling. Bless her. She has had a good life and spends her time lay on a big cushion near the radiator. We can't imagine her not being with us, the girls adore her.

It is very sad to lose a pet. They are such a big part of our families.
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