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Author Topic: Meet-Up 2014 Meet up in United Kingdom (Midlands?? Stratford on Avon ??)

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Haha - if we all take that attitude towards our meet up, it won't happen ;) Seriously tho, I do understand. I like to fix things too, but I wouldn't regard this as fixing so all good for me. I'm not all that keen to do the organising as I still feel very much a newbie here, but if no one else wants to I'll give it a go.
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Let me investigate room prices and I'll get back to you. Are we therefore assuming the 12th April?
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I'm sorry everyone. I really didn't mean to abdicate and leave it in the lurch like that….    But I did feel a bit lbs-ish and wondered why I wasn't pursuing my changes to me and generally letting everything GO.  I'm trying to be much more laid back in 2014.  8) 8)  When I roll up in Birmingham I may be in tie-dye clothes with flowers in hair.

S&D - I can co-organise if you want. Just PM me and say the word. 

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The 12th, works for me as well.  I will let you know closer to the date... or at least once you need to know for sure.  I don't want to commit myself this far out.  I kind of like the freedom we now have, that our kids are all out of our home and in their own, hehehe. 

Maybe my h will come along.  I would love for IANTE's daughter to meet him and the other kids too.  I think it would help them to see that this MLC is not HOPELESS, it does not mean the end of their parent as they once knew him/her. 

Sounding good girls. I have been to Stratford, Ontario, Canada.  Also a Shakespeare Theater.  It was so many years ago that I was there I can't remember which play we saw.  It is an open air theater, you look down on the stage... marvelous experience.  Very pretty town as well.  http://www.stratfordfestival.ca/ 

Will keep my eyes open to see when I must commit.  Hugs Stayed 

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Please come Stayed. I'd love to meet you, and your H!

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Thanks Lovely1, we are definitely considering it.

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 HI, I'm a relative newbie here but I'm really interested in this so can put my name down. Ceri xxx
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Good for you Ceri.   Meeting other LBS's was one of the best things I ever did for myself.  I came away feeling empowered and in control for the first time throughout the whole ordeal. 

Hopefully I will get to meet you...

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I'm latching on here.....cuz I JUST MIGHT do a lil sumthing crazy! ;)
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Feel something crazy coming on Duthla??? hehehe that would be fantastic!  Crazy is good!

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