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#20: January 24, 2014, 07:47:49 PM
Boo boo awesome.

Hate the mustache and beard I told him it looked good on him. That one's biting me in the butt.

Lots of tv shows we used to watch

The smell of skank on his clothes

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D for financial reasons March 2012
Started seeing massive change over the summer 2012
Left end of October 2012
Started coming home thanksgiving 2013
Home now. March 2014
Believe ow is gone
Probably going through this for years
OW discovered Oct.23,2013,old GF from before we met at the age of 16!
Left again Oct. 20 2015
Came back two weeks later
Still here 01/17 not done yet
Home 2019,rebuilding

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Re: Things we hate
#21: January 24, 2014, 08:14:09 PM
LIARS, Liars, Liars
Cheaters
Scumbags
OW
Abandoners
Ppl who think they still deserve respect when they have
        Degraded their family
Ppl who  support liars and cheaters

I agree with angel's daughter
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Re: Things we hate
#22: January 24, 2014, 09:44:07 PM
This is fun. I have more hate. I think Ill start out every one of these repeating MLC and OW

MLC :o
OW >:(
Insomnia
Hair falling out (oh my beautiful hair)
Lady Stuff problems :-[
Not being in my own house/kitchen
Trying to think about the future
The sick feeling in my stomach
The ache in my chest
Feeling like Im going crazy
The knowledge that this is nowhere near over. :'( :'(
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Re: Things we hate
#23: January 24, 2014, 10:51:58 PM
Happy couples (sorry, that's very grinchy isn't it)
Being told "you deserve better"
Not buying him things I know he would love
People feeling sorry for me

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Re: Things we hate
#24: January 25, 2014, 01:06:12 AM
OW and her drug addict son - which they would disappear into the outback never to return

The stupid wedding ad that comes up on the left hand side of this site

H silly adolescent giggle when he talks about old girlfriends/s3x exploits

People (H really) lying by omission, and telling themselves they are being truthful

That one granny hair on my chin that appears, an inch long, overnight and I discover it when there isn't a pair of tweezers within reach!

Not being able to move house or replace the furniture

And the lack of nookie, now I've rediscovered it........... Frustration  :o ???
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Re: Things we hate
#25: January 25, 2014, 02:56:54 AM
Happy couples (sorry, that's very grinchy isn't it)
Being told "you deserve better"
Not buying him things I know he would love
People feeling sorry for me

DITTO!!! happy couples make me angry too. I essentially got the "you deserve better" speech. YOUR DAMN RIGHT I DESERVE BETTER! I deserve it from you Jackass! I work in retail and all day long I see things I know he would love that I can no longer buy him. Great post.
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Re: Things we hate
#26: January 25, 2014, 03:22:49 AM
I hate not being somewhat financially able to find a different place to live.

My kitchen gives me some aggravation here. ::) But I HATED the one I had before.

 I hate thoughtless inconsiderate people.

Other than that not to much bothers me.

NC saved my sanity.
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Be the candle; or the mirror that reflects it

Don't ask why someone is still hurting you; ask why you keep letting them.What you allow continues.

At some point you have to get sick of going through the same sh!t.

Women are NOT rehabilitation centers for badly raised men. It is not your job to fix ,parent, raise or change him.
You want a partner not a project.

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Re: Things we hate
#27: January 25, 2014, 06:17:05 AM
Things I hate:

Not going to parties as a Mr. And Mrs.

No spontaneous day trips.

Selfish people who impose their own views on the situation, and tell you you deserve it when you don't do as they say.

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Re: Things we hate
#28: January 25, 2014, 06:46:42 AM
I never really thought of myself as a hater before mlc kicked in my life but I see now that I am capable of it after all.

1. Starting a new toilet roll !! when that paper rips into one bit that goes all the way round. Arghhhhh..... ( okay that was there before mlc :-)...)

2.  People with no manners, they cost nothing.

Geez I am on a roll.... Not a toilet roll though!

3. Women who hate other women because they are jealous of their looks.

4. The victim mentality. OMG I hate hate hate that!

5. Saying I can't before even trying

6. Women who cheat because they were cheated on and see this as their revenge against another women they have never met or even know. Grow up bafoon!

7. Lies and liars is actually my number one. It boils my blood when someone has the audacity to lie straight to my face without even a flinch.

8. Asparagus, what is that all about!

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Re: Things we hate
#29: January 25, 2014, 08:13:43 AM
I hate:
"Move on" - grrrrrrr
people who don't use their blinkers - last time I checked they were a standard feature, not an option
nice clothes that don't fit anymore because of the LBS diet
seeing couples holding hands or kissing - bleh!  Makes me wanna puke!
sitting in my house alone.

 
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