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#20: April 23, 2014, 02:37:27 PM
It would explain the quick turn around for Barbiedoll´s h.
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#21: April 23, 2014, 04:38:24 PM
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If I send you H's address, will you mail him a copy?





Heck I second that !.
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#22: April 23, 2014, 04:42:20 PM
I'm blown away Barbie, that is a very special thing for that man to have done.
Wishing you and your family all the very best
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#23: April 23, 2014, 07:55:28 PM
What a blessing, to have a brave, bold man speak truth!!!  I wish we all had somebody like that fighting for us.
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#24: April 23, 2014, 08:26:22 PM
WOW, what a gift….and from someone you will never know. The week of BD, a very good friend who has been married 27 years came over to talk to my H. Tried to hope him see that all marriages have highs and lows, all spouses have disagreements and at times you wonder where the passion and excitement have gone. He was very candid and let us see inside their marriage, the good the bad and the ugly. My H thanked him for the visit, but in once ear and out the other. He is so convinced what he is doing is right, he just isn't happy, we are a bad match, etc. etc. But I letter like that, I think would really get his attention. You need to thank God for whomever had the courage to send it.
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#25: April 23, 2014, 08:41:31 PM
I believe it's got to be at the right time in the MLCers life.  It just seems too simple, a letter and a book changing the course of a life....

Thanks for sharing Barbie and good for you!
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#26: April 23, 2014, 10:37:53 PM
Wow! Thank you for posting the letter...I wish all the best for you and your husband!!
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#27: April 24, 2014, 02:06:38 AM

Thank you for posting . What an angel the mystery person is .

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#28: April 24, 2014, 03:51:23 AM
Hobo- there is a case of just the book, NO letter, changing lives.

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#29: April 24, 2014, 04:03:22 AM
I agree with both FTT and Hobo- timing in regards to a catalyst can help. You can understand it and explain it until you are blue in the face and until someone can see it and identify with it? They remain lost.

I'm pretty sure it can't come from us. Frustrating at best.

So whichever one worked to open his eyes? May remain a mystery.

I can do all things through Christ which strengthen me.

((((HUGS BARBIE))))
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