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#20: July 23, 2014, 05:35:18 AM
  H a p p y   b i r t h d a y,   S t a y e d ! ! !
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Re: HAPPY BIRTHDAY STAYED!!!!
#21: July 23, 2014, 05:39:36 AM
Happy birthday!
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Me: 26, Bf: 33, R: 9 years

BD 17 April 2014
OW confirmed 28 April 2014
Phone call: it's over, 3 June 2014
NC and doubt I'll ever hear from him again.

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Re: HAPPY BIRTHDAY STAYED!!!!
#22: July 23, 2014, 05:52:24 AM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY STAYED!!!!
We share the same day!
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Completely detached from his old life. Starting new life with the paramour. New baby born 1/2015...shh... it's a secret!! another baby born 7/16 LOL
M- 48
H- 48
OW - 32 female soldier in his unit
BD- 11/25/13
M- 25 yrs
D- 19 S-14
didn't come home one night, BD next morning, moved in w/OW
I'm not happy, We aren't compatible, lost the spark, you don't like to camp or hike... We have been growing apart for years....ILYBINILWY..... my life was meant to be on a different path...
laugh, you truly can't make this up!

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Re: HAPPY BIRTHDAY STAYED!!!!
#23: July 23, 2014, 05:57:25 AM
Hoping this birthday is your best one yet!
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Re: HAPPY BIRTHDAY STAYED!!!!
#24: July 23, 2014, 06:45:20 AM
Oh Happy Day :):):)

hope it was fantastic!!
and "uneventful" hehehehe!

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Re: HAPPY BIRTHDAY STAYED!!!!
#25: July 23, 2014, 12:23:05 PM
Happy Birthday!!!!
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Me  53
H  68
Married 23 yrs
BD 8/10
OW 10/10 Gone 7/11
8/11 home again
8/12 Reconnecting
11/13 Rebuilding a stronger marraige


Old name: Wondering what to do

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Re: HAPPY BIRTHDAY STAYED!!!!
#26: July 23, 2014, 12:46:57 PM
Hope your birthday was fabulous

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Me: b 1962   H: b 1969
M: 2001   T: 1996   
BD- June 2013  - Left Oct 2013
OW - yes - 21 yrs younger
D: Friday 13 Jan 2017 - I initiated
Married OW 1 Jun 2017
Done

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Re: HAPPY BIRTHDAY STAYED!!!!
#27: July 23, 2014, 12:54:42 PM
Very late - but HAPPY DAYS to Stayed!!   Our mega-star.
xxx   :) :)
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BD June 2011
Affair discovered; three moves out and three attempts at return during 2012, culminating in "I'm not coming back" statement. Then DIY separation agreement - Feb 14 - which I wouldn't sign. He moved in with OW in 10/14 and I heard little more. I instigated D in 2016.  He's still living in rental with OW and her D but the cracks are starting to appear.

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Re: HAPPY BIRTHDAY STAYED!!!!
#28: July 23, 2014, 04:24:43 PM
Also on the late train, but very happy birthday stayed and thank you for being around in this forum, even years and years after your reconciliation to help others along. You are very much appreciated.
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Re: HAPPY BIRTHDAY STAYED!!!!
#29: July 23, 2014, 05:50:22 PM
Happy Birthday Stayed!  I am a  little late but at least it didn't take me 3.5 years to post this time.  Many many more.  :)
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