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#60: February 26, 2011, 04:17:41 PM
Hi I think this is another one sums up MLC to me too ..........

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"If Leaving Me Is Easy"

I read all the letters, I read each word that you've sent to me
And though it's past now, and the words start to fade
All the memories I have still remain

I've kept all the pictures, but I hide my feelings so no-one knows
Oh sure my friends all come round, but I'm in a crowd on my own
It's 'cos you're gone now, but your heart, still remains
And it'll be here if you come again

You see, I'd heard the rumours, I knew before you let me know
But I didn't believe it, not you,
No you would not let me go
Seems I was wrong, but I love, I love you the same
And that's the one thing that you can't take away but just remember...

If leaving me is easy,
Coming back is harder...

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Re: Music Thread
#61: February 28, 2011, 09:31:33 AM

"Beautiful Disaster" By Kelley Clarkson 

He drowns in his dreams
An exquisite extreme I know
He’s as damned as he seems
And more heaven than a heart could hold
And if I try to save him
My whole world could cave in
It just ain't right
It just ain't right

Oh and I don't know
I don't know what he's after
But he's so beautiful
Such a beautiful disaster
And if I could hold on
Through the tears and the laughter
Would it be beautiful?
Or just a beautiful disaster

He's magic and myth
As strong as what I believe
A tragedy with
More damage than a soul should see
And do I try to change him?
So hard not to blame him
Hold on tight
Hold on tight

Oh 'cause I don't know
I don't know what he's after
But he’s so beautiful
Such a beautiful disaster
And if I could hold on
Through the tears and the laughter
Would it be beautiful?
Or just a beautiful disaster

I'm longing for love and the logical
But he's only happy hysterical
I'm waiting for some kind of miracle
Waited so long
So long

He’s soft to the touch
But frayed at the end he breaks
He’s never enough
And still he's more than I can take

Oh 'cause I don't know
I don't know what he's after
But he's so beautiful
Such a beautiful disaster
And if I could hold on
Through the tears and the laughter
Would it be beautiful?
Or just a beautiful disaster

He’s beautiful
Such a beautiful disaster

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Re: Music Thread
#62: March 11, 2011, 09:39:17 AM
Come Back to Me by David Cook

You say you gotta go and find yourself
You say that you're becoming someone else
Don't recognize the face in the mirror looking back at you
 
You say you're leaving as you look away
I know there's really nothing left to say
Just know i'm here whenever you need me i'll wait for you
 
So i'll let you go i'll set you free
And when you've seen what you need to see
When you find you come back to me
 
Take your time i won't go anywhere
Picture you with the wind in your hair
I'll keep your things right where you left them
I'll be here for you
 
Oh and i'll let you go i'll set your free
And when you've seen what you need to see
When you find you come back to me
 
And i hope you find everything that you need
I'll be right here waiting to see
You find you come back to me
 
I can't get close if you're not there
I can't get inside if there's no soul there
I can't face you i can't save you
It's something you'll have to do
 
So i'll let you go i'll set you free
And when you've seen what you need to see
When you find you come back to me
Come back to me
 
So i'll let you go i'll set you free
And when you've seen what you need to see
When you find you come back to me
 
And i hope you find everything that you need
I'll be right here waiting to see
You find you come back to me
 
You find you come back to me
When you find you come back to me
When you find you come back to me
 
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Re: Music Thread
#63: March 11, 2011, 12:21:04 PM
whatever,

I listened to that song endlessly after I got the speech....that and Leave I Light On (When I'm Gone).

I haven't seen anything new from David Cook in a long time.
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Re: Music Thread
#64: March 12, 2011, 08:28:35 PM
I listened to this song while driving to school and suddenly, this song has taken on a totally different meaning than when I listened to it a long, long time ago...

"Worked It Out Wrong" by Chris Isaak

I don't have anything I got to do all day
Lie in bed and watch TV
I don't have anything that I need to say
I know that you're hurting too, I know you're all alone
I know that you're coming back, I worked it out wrong
Worked it out wrong
I'll be silent, I'll be strong
I'll wait for you to come to me
And I know it won't be long
I know that you're hurting too, I know you're all alone
I know that you're coming back, I worked it out wrong
I worked it out wrong

Time, time means nothing
No nothing, means nothing when you're gone
Baby I'm lonely, and I'm sorry
I was wrong
I worked it out wrong
I worked it out wrong

I know that you're hurting too, I know you're all alone
I know that you're coming back, I worked it out wrong
Worked it out wrong
Time, time means nothing
No nothing, means nothing when you're gone
I'm lonely and I'm sorry
I was wrong
Worked it out wrong
I worked it out wrong
I worked it out wrong
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Re: Music Thread
#65: April 01, 2011, 10:46:41 AM
I was just about to post the song by Adele, but saw that someone beat me to it.

Scroll back for the lyrics, and then listen;

Adele: Someone like you:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s_Zs7XS3XUo
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Re: Music Thread
#66: April 01, 2011, 10:52:19 AM
Another song, which expresses what my H said to me about 2 years ago. He said this song summed it up.

Lynyrd Skynyrd-Free Bird
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CkTQUtx818w

If I leave here tomorrow
Would you still remember me
For I must be traveling on now
'Cause there's too many places I've got to see

But if I stayed here with you,GIRL
Things just couldn't be the same
'Cause I'm as free as a bird now
And this bird you cannot change

Ohohohohohhhhh
And the bird you cannot change
And this bird you cannot change
Lord knows I can’t change

Bye bye, baby, it's been a sweet love, yeah, yeah
Though this feeling I can't change
But please don't take it so badly
'Cause Lord knows I'm to blame

But if I stay here with you, GIRL
Things just couldn't be the same
Cause I'm as free as a bird now
And this bird you never change

Ohohohohohhhhh
And the bird you cannot change
And this bird you cannot change
Lord knows I can't change
Lord help me I can't change
Lord I can't change,
Won't you fly high, Free Bird, yeah
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Re: Music Thread
#67: April 01, 2011, 10:56:26 AM
But "Dreams" by Fleetwood Mac sounds much more like our MLers...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YEi7GPkxfsE

Now here you go again
You say you want your freedom
Well who am I to keep you down
It's only right that you should
Play the way you feel it
But listen carefully to the sound
Of your loneliness
Like a heartbeat...drives you mad
In the stillness of remembering what you had
And what you lost...
And what you had...
And what you lost

Thunder only happens when it's raining
Players only love you when they're playing
Say...Women...they will come and they will go
When the rain washes you clean...you'll know

Now here I go again, I see the crystal visions
I keep my visions to myself
It's only me
Who wants to wrap around your dreams and...
Have you any dreams you'd like to sell?
Dreams of loneliness...
Like a heartbeat...drives you mad
In the stillness of remembering what you had...
And what you lost
And what you had...
And what you lost

Thunder only happens when it's raining
Players only love you when they're playing
Say...Women...they will come and they will go
When the rain washes you clean...you'll know

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Re: Music Thread
#68: April 17, 2011, 09:51:06 AM
Just listened to rascal flatts stand and it thought of all of us here .
Hope we are all having a good day. Remember we aren't  alone we have each other . That is something that makes me smile
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Re: Music Thread
#69: April 17, 2011, 10:17:02 AM
My anthem!

White Flag by dido

I know you think that I shouldn't still love you,
Or tell you that.
But if I didn't say it, well I'd still have felt it
where's the sense in that?

I promise I'm not trying to make your life harder
Or return to where we were

I will go down with this ship
And I won't put my hands up and surrender
There will be no white flag above my door
I'm in love and always will be

I know I left too much mess and
destruction to come back again
And I caused nothing but trouble
I understand if you can't talk to me again
And if you live by the rules of "it's over"
then I'm sure that that makes sense

I will go down with this ship
And I won't put my hands up and surrender
There will be no white flag above my door
I'm in love and always will be

And when we meet
Which I'm sure we will
All that was there
Will be there still
I'll let it pass
And hold my tongue
And you will think
That I've moved on....

I will go down with this ship
And I won't put my hands up and surrender
There will be no white flag above my door
I'm in love and always will be

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