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#20: September 11, 2014, 05:25:04 AM

OH gosh H&F I feel for your friend , I can almost see similar things happening with some of my friends . Maybe we were taken down this path to enable us to help others !!!
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Re: Full Moon Alert
#21: September 11, 2014, 05:34:00 AM
Yeah, I think so Callan.  It's amazing because she is a little bit psychic and when I first me her and told her my story, she said "that's gonna happen to me".  The more I got to know her, the more I though that she was the one with one foot out the door.  Not because of anyone else but because she felt she didn't deserve her H.  He was a loyal, happy, loving sort of chappie that just seemed to adore her.

I told her what I thought and she stopped sabotaging the relationship. Now this.  I also remember slumping down one day and saying "why is this happening to me" and she looked at me and said "to show the rest of us that it's possible".  It really strengthened my resolve at the time and made me feel that maybe this is almost a calling.
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Re: Full Moon Alert
#22: September 11, 2014, 06:52:38 AM
i am so sorry your friend is having to deal with this now too, but i really like what she said about you showing others that it is possible to make it through.
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Re: Full Moon Alert
#23: September 13, 2014, 06:02:08 PM
So sorry to hear about your friend. I do believe we are all connected and sent certain people in our lives to either help or for them to help us.
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Re: Full Moon Alert
#24: November 07, 2014, 12:05:40 PM
We forgot to bump this but the full moon effects are still in place and will be strong at least until Saturday.
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Re: Full Moon Alert
#25: November 07, 2014, 12:15:30 PM
the full moon always brings out the "fun"
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Re: Full Moon Alert
#26: November 07, 2014, 12:28:07 PM
Yes the full moon does bring on a lot of fun!
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Re: Full Moon Alert
#27: December 04, 2014, 03:12:05 PM
the weather report says we are under the spell of the full moon again. so, you know, the crazy is gonna come out.  ::)
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Re: Full Moon Alert
#28: December 04, 2014, 03:17:49 PM
It sure is. Lucky for me h is in lock down at treatment so I don't have to deal with it for once.
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bomb drop  october 2013
secret trip with OW June 2014
moved out to live with OW July 2014
left state with ow to go to treatment Nov 2014
Ow gave birth to OC June 2015
h is on probation back here at home
H married ow dec 2015 while still being legally married to me
H returned home 4/17
EA turned PA
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Re: Full Moon Alert
#29: December 04, 2014, 03:45:06 PM
Oh no
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