[superdog]

Sorry to take you back a page, but i was laughing out loud at the sexual noises debate.

No no no no no....... I recall this one man that made so much noise and then at that "moment" made a noise and a face to go with it that looked and sounded  like he had just had his leg chopped off with a blunt saw.  I had two choices, hurt the guys feelings or decide that wearing ear defenders in bed was not a good look for anyone.

I also do not wish to be asked questions or enter into meaningful conversation, whats all that about? Emmm...... Excuse me but quit with the questions dude,  i cant answer you cant you see i'm kind of busy over here. Lol.

Elray, yes your right. Guess i would have been that woman sat in her cave for one, sucking on an old dinosaur bone left behind by all the beautiful people.

Sorry i had to get that out, too funny. I love men i really do.

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[MeNow]

That's too bad DO on all counts. It's a loss for HS. You are a good role model and mentor, especially for the guys. I always enjoyed your perspective. See you on the other side of the galaxy. We'll have some Sithian ale!

[MeNow]

Sorry to take you back a page, but i was laughing out loud at the sexual noises debate.

No no no no no....... I recall this one man that made so much noise and then at that "moment" made a noise and a face to go with it that looked and sounded  like he had just had his leg chopped off with a blunt saw.  I had two choices, hurt the guys feelings or decide that wearing ear defenders in bed was not a good look for anyone.

I also do not wish to be asked questions or enter into meaningful conversation, whats all that about? Emmm...... Excuse me but quit with the questions dude,  i cant answer you cant you see i'm kind of busy over here. Lol.

Elray, yes your right. Guess i would have been that woman sat in her cave for one, sucking on an old dinosaur bone left behind by all the beautiful people.

Sorry i had to get that out, too funny. I love men i really do.

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What?! You didn't find that appealing? Did his orgasm face look like this or something? 

[superdog]

Ha ha , no, but that was extremely uncanny to the look on MY face 

Wonder where he is now. Now the silence is deafening.lol xxx

[Picton]

Yes folks stay away from making the sex tapes - the orgasm face is never pretty! (Or so I been told)

Kia Kaha - stay strong

[Dji76]

Thunder, my comment about marriage is based on my experience with my MLCer. We are still married and have not started any legal action. For me, I see no benefit to the institution of marriage. I am happy I was married and hope to save my current marriage, but will not marry a second time. I already have children and see no benefit to ever marrying again. I am interested if any of the other men here feel the same. I'm also interested as to what benefits of marriage anyone else here sees. You can have all the benefits of a marriage without creating a legal contract. I'm not opposed to being fair in a divorce settlement, I just wouldn't do it a second time knowing what I now know.

[hawk]

Yeah l hate the thought of ever getting married again. l know it's for all the wrong reasons but what can l say.
But a poss' second divorce - how crazy is that when l haven't even met anyone l wanna marry yet anyway and l'm already worrying about a second divorce .
lf l fell in love and could somehow know , she had what it takes , really , and would be there for life , through thick and thin , yeah ,maybe l would but , if my ex did this , anyone can.
Women unfortunately so often are weak and selfish these days , you see it everywhere , it's become so me me .  Media , date sites , it's like a la la land , it's everywhere.
The sort of women that are here , standing for their marriages , not giving up , going through what were all going through , fighting and trying everything they can even after yrs to save their marriages , yeah l'd marry someone like that again but how would you know you had one of those until it hits the fan.

[hawk]

Forget the bad boy thing guys , it's all just big load of crock, la la land garbage internet opportunity to grand stand bs . Just night clubbing out with the girls big noting themselves in front of their friends 1/2 drunk more bs la la land .
And for a start ,what are you even getting in her for your trouble anyway?.

Forget to that thread l mentioned earlier because that's exactly all that was too , just mentioned it to prove a point.
90% of the women in that place were just grandstanding over the internet in front of all their friends there and the good old egging each other on thing as they do . Most of them had been single for urs and yrs and forever b@tching about the bad boys they always ended up dating . They'd all had the crapper kicked out of them for yrs on end in reality. But give someone the op to grandstand and dream and that's all that was.

lf you really wanna see just read date site profiles , hate that word , it's so not what love should be isn't it.
But anyway , the LAST thing on the planet, real life women are looking for in a real relationship and asking for is a bad boy ,  the total opposite in fact, total opposite .
Anyone 1/2 decent on those things actually stresses , and often 3 or 4 times. Things like and don't even bother if all your after is sex , and things like genuinely or playing games or cas' hook up rararara , l'm not the girl for you.
They're all looking for decent guys  that will treat them well , communicate, someone after a long term 2way relationship , they go on and on about a nice guy not some jerk  .
And they often have a paragraph , hell l've seen them go on for 3/4 of a page  about all the ass/holes they're meeting - a bad boy is the last thing those girls are looking for in reality .

Besides , we are what we are , so how real is it if that isn't good enough ?
Would you really want some 50yr old moron that's still stuck in the bad boy dreaming . How longs it gonna last with a women like that assuming you were stupid enough to even bother anyway ?

As l said to a mate just the other wk when he brought that sh@t up. Just look down any street or shopping strip and what do you see in all the married couples out there. You see every poss' combo in two people you could imagine. That's reality .

[Lanzo]

I've not contributed much to this thread, hope to do so in the future.

Thunder, my comment about marriage is based on my experience with my MLCer. We are still married and have not started any legal action. For me, I see no benefit to the institution of marriage. I am happy I was married .and hope to save my current marriage, but will not marry a second time. I already have children and see no benefit to ever marrying again.  I am interested if any of the other men here feel the same. I'm also interested as to what benefits of marriage anyone else here sees. You can have all the benefits of a marriage without creating a legal contract. I'm not opposed to being fair in a divorce settlement, I just wouldn't do it a second time knowing what I now know.

The above quote (bolded) is where I am at now.
I do hope to have a close relationship with someone in the future but don't see the benefit of getting married another  time.

 Uk Law  gives the woman 50% plus of the mans marital assets while letting her keep her own. I won't put myself in that position to lose what I have. (This is my own personal experience and may not relate to nationwide divorce statistics).

Lanzo

[Mad Hatter]

Thunder, my comment about marriage is based on my experience with my MLCer. We are still married and have not started any legal action. For me, I see no benefit to the institution of marriage. I am happy I was married and hope to save my current marriage, but will not marry a second time. I already have children and see no benefit to ever marrying again. I am interested if any of the other men here feel the same. I'm also interested as to what benefits of marriage anyone else here sees. You can have all the benefits of a marriage without creating a legal contract. I'm not opposed to being fair in a divorce settlement, I just wouldn't do it a second time knowing what I now know.

Whether or not to marry again is subjective to the parties involved and personal preference.

Technically, there is no need for marriage period. A man and woman can commit to each other, have children, raise and provide for them as Well as nurture each other And sustain the relationship indefinitely without being legally married! Couple of good examples are Kurt Russell and Goldie Hawn and Gene Simmons with Shannon Tweed. Neither of these couples were married yet they both sustained long term relationships and both had children they raised together.

Reality is, eventually you will get pushed for marriage. It doesn't take lon,  few months, a year, and eventually you will get approached with questions like "so what are we", suggestions to move in together, and some will flat out pressure you for marriage.

While there are legal benefits (tax breaks, insurance plans, etc ), marriage really benefits the woman. Because of the draconian divorce laws that typically favor women, marriage ensures that, should things go sour, she can be entitled to assets and alimony. Even if she Does have a good paying job, more often than not you will pay or relinquish assets to ensure she can sustain her "standard of living".

I don't include CS as that is given and a man should support his child both question and with a smile on his face!

The only real benefit to marriage after kids I can see is financial peers combining assets for a standard of living.....and even then, individual assets should not be mingled and a pre-nup and follow up post-nup is crucial in the event things go sour. Marriage has nothing to do with love.....you can love someone for the rest of your life, support and nurture them, and never need to be married to do so.

I personally am not opposed to marriage.....but extreme screening should be done; understand fully Well the type of person they are and don't be afraid to bail when red flags come to surface! She needs to bring something to the table as well (financially) and have her own hobbies & activities to meet some of her needs. It's impossible and very selfish to ask someone to meet your every need and revolve around them!

Regards