[BB64]

47. Substance abuse
48. Lies when it moves its lips.

[justbelieve]

49. Finds a 'friend' 

[BB64]

50. Nothing is their fault

[R]

51. Lying.... - A LOT!

52. Memory loss - especially not remembering the lies they tell

      

[BB64]

53. Surround themselves with pond scums. To fulfil a sense of superiority.

[crazyjourney]

54

Constantly on the go including lots of travel.

[BB64]

55. Incapable to feel or show compassion to others.

[PatienceGalore]

56. sorry, that's just the way it is!

[toughtimes]

This is good, had been thinking a thread like this could be a way to sum up the signs.

My H:

Starting running and eating healthily, lost weight
Angry
Mood swings
Working all the time
Obsessed with success
Money obsessed
Delusional about how much money he would make, started looking at private schools for our kids even though he had no income
Hanging out with a whole new set of people all part of his business
Staying out more and more (escape and avoid)
bought trendy watch and running suit, when I giggled and said it was all so trendy he hissed "but that is what I like."
Ultra defensive
Guilt presents for Xmas 2011
Had condoms in his wash bag after a night away
Denied any affair. When I said I felt insecure he sat me down in the bathroom and said "look TT all my friends fancy you" WTF!
Said "there are easier ways of meeting people than through social networking you know TT, I have had offers"
Started wearing skinny jeans and white converse boots and the stupid watch (that has settled down)
Used tens of thousands of pounds of our savings, he had no income whilst setting up business
Angry and defensive when I questioned it
BD after BD then gone.
Narcissistic traits
Cruel
Bullying
Total lack of empathy or care for us
Absolute total blame of me

I'm sure there are more signs but those are the main ones for me. I can tick a whole bunch of the ones at the beginning of the thread too!

[PatienceGalore]

TT, you sound like you've had a lovely time of late! You poor soul! Hasn't been as bad here, but I've had the clothes, the watch (in fairness he's always loved watches but the latest one is a monstrosity!) the bike, working like mad, anger, cares for me (how sweet!) zero empathy, little contact, withdrawn, wants social life but doesn't do anything about it, smokes little fancy cigars(looks like a pimp if u ask me) and a few more!