[crazyjourney]

TT and PG

You made me giggle.

Skinny jeans and white converse boots ?

Fancy little cigars, looks like a pimp!!!!

When mine visited for sons 21st few months after BD he was showing nephew (late 20 s) some of his work out muscles and moves, he never lifted weights previously, did the odd bit jogging usually after christmas and new year, you know when your full of new year resolutions and went swimming from time to time but doing weights was definitely something new, as was the rather bright jacket I noticed slung over a chair, bit shocked when I found out it was his and not one of sons friends.

Its good to have a little giggle over it all but is very sad in reality.

Oh and another for the rather hip watch here lol, wonder if there is a mlc shop.

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[i can and will cope]

i just have to do this? leave marraige for pondscum just met for one day ?

[PatienceGalore]

And on it goes... I also had: I have to leave, I'm more relaxed (staying at his mum with no responsibilities, I'd be relaxed too!!!). Sex with OW was so much better than with you , we did it all the time (you have no idea, but my self esteem went through the roof on that one!), she listens to me, so much easier to be with her....I think the skinny jeans and white conversion combo wins so far... I don't think I've topped that.... Wait, does fancy guitars, microphone and amps come close?

[PatienceGalore]

Meant converse not conversion! iPhone tries to override my brain... Will probably win some day!

[trusting]

Dressing like a teenager

New group of "friends" is much younger than himself, young and single.

Newly found love of Facebook rather than the pre-MLC disdain for it.


My husband became the complete opposite of who he was before in almost every single way.  That was my big tell that this was a crisis. 

[UKStander]

Night sweats!  A few of us UK standers have recently found this was common to our H's just before BD.  How weird is that.

Other physical symptoms . . . mine complained of stress-like things: showed me his shaking hands one morning. Said his brain felt 'hot' like it had been running too fast for too long; and it felt as though there was a band around his chest (this is actually referred to in one of the books I've read, too - can't remember which one though!). 

Sudden weight loss. 

[PatienceGalore]

Weird!!! I had hand shaking too, I've noticed he had that....I wonder why that is? Is it the inner stress they are under?
Night sweats is true too, I just thought he was too hot during the night...then I live in Ireland, so that is a ridiculous thing for me to say, it's always cold and damp!!!

[toughtimes]

My h started doing weights too ... He filled two big bottles of windscreen wash up with water and pumped iron! He's always felt like he had wimpy arms.

I think the guitar, amp and mic is brilliantly MLC!

[Slow Fade]

57. Strange and different body odor

[serenity]

Took me to look at a plane we might buy - even though we were broke!!! And was cross that I didn't show enough interest!!! :0/ He can't fly, by the way!

Now twitches a lot.

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