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#80: September 22, 2013, 10:32:23 AM
I think you are right, we can just accept we are all dealing with MLC and then get going with our own thing. I have spent a year and half questioning if its MLC or not and it just is! Nothing we can do except help each other navigate the communications and ups and downs.
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Re: Signs your spouse is in MLC
#81: September 22, 2013, 12:14:36 PM
Am I the only one that had to go looking at aeroplanes to purchase - surely not?!?

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#82: September 22, 2013, 01:48:06 PM
I had to look at generators because a recession is like the apocalypse, dontchya know! ::)
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Re: Signs your spouse is in MLC
#83: September 22, 2013, 01:49:21 PM
Yes Serenity, yours seems to be the only one that thinks he could fly lol, unless of course someone else knows different.

Most of them are happy to run away, bless him yours wanted to fly away.

Maybe he could of just run along with a kite, that might have helped.

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Re: Signs your spouse is in MLC
#84: September 22, 2013, 02:46:08 PM
He got a kite after he left and played with it and then put the pictures on f/b! Ha ha!

I'm VERY disappointed I'm the only one with H who wanted a plane! I don't want to be the odd one out. He he. That means he's even more weird than the rest of them put together ;0)

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Re: Signs your spouse is in MLC
#85: September 22, 2013, 03:18:31 PM
66.   Tells you that you have been vindictive for a long time now!
67.   Accuses you of being a score-keeper!
68.   Shows the OW his underwater pictures that he took while scuba diving...the same ones he showed you 20 years ago!
69.   Bought 2 new expensive cars, traded one for the other, within 2 years.  (the cars did not fill the empty hole I'm guessing)


No, my MLCer did not try to buy a plane, nor can he fly a plane but the alimony sure costs him more than my credit card did. LOL..not really funny but then again my small credit card payment was his major complaint at the time.  I wonder what he is complaining about now??   
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Re: Signs your spouse is in MLC
#86: September 22, 2013, 04:45:37 PM
70 I am going to do whatever I want, I don't care what anyone's thinks..I am hot stuff with my 24 yr old OW who has a serious PD.

71. I'll give you spousal and child support but you must carry all the debt, so I can run off and have fun with no worries and stress of being an adult.

72. What I have a baby, well your a good mom.  I'llwait until she is out of diapers to take her out.

73. Stop going in to work..I'll work from home and my assistant OW will do that too.

74. Maybe I'll work from the bush up north fishing...h*ll, who needs to work.

75. My ego is so huge...that OW has put me so high on that pedestal I can't see the ground.

76. Wants to try out for Duck Dynasty..I have the looks and have some money..I'll fit right in.
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Re: Signs your spouse is in MLC
#87: September 22, 2013, 05:01:53 PM
Serenity,
Mine didn't try to fly in a plane but he did take up zip-lining. I guess that's flying with a wire and a skanky other woman behind you:)
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Re: Signs your spouse is in MLC
#88: September 22, 2013, 07:05:30 PM
Wait!! Night sweats?? I never realized this was part of it. Why would that be so? Mind had horrific night sweats. And tapping feet.. Always tap, tap, tapping

77. I want you in my life but I'm not sure in what capacity (OUCH!)
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Re: Signs your spouse is in MLC
#89: September 22, 2013, 09:59:13 PM
Mine told me he'd met such lovely new people and friends in his life that truly cared for him and respected who he was!

Today - he has no one. Oh but wait, apparently that's my fault too :0/. Ugh!!!!

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