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Off-Topic Re: I want to wish everyone a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS....
#20: December 19, 2011, 08:31:15 PM
DITTO!!

one of my favorites!

Love and many blessing to everyone and their families!

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Re: I want to wish everyone a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS....
#21: December 19, 2011, 08:44:36 PM
Hb thank-you i truly wish you the same and i hope one day just has you and others have helped me on my journey i can help others who have yet to face this........Merry Christmas and very happy new year to you and your family xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Re: I want to wish everyone a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS....
#22: December 19, 2011, 08:55:38 PM
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Hb thank-you i truly wish you the same and i hope one day just has you and others have helped me on my journey i can help others who have yet to face this

I think you already do, and don't realize it, Sweetie.  You know as "windy" as I often get; sometimes what people really want is to know they aren't alone in these types of trials.

I also understand I get "stalked", "chased"; asked a LOT of questions; and it was a long time before I realized that I really WAS helping people just by being there, EVEN if I couldn't say ONE thing; except, I'm here, I love you, and I'm so sorry you're going through this...

Lady, you have more to offer than you think; you are going through an aspect of this that the information you post DOES help, more than you know; and you never know who is LURKING; that might actually read your posts, but NEVER post themselves.

I've had people that have sent me PMs that have NEVER posted this board; but they were reading various posts; and were gleaning information; and help from all they read...so NEVER think you aren't helping; you really are; you just don't know it, because you don't see always see it. :)

Gods' Blessings upon you,
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Re: I want to wish everyone a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS....
#23: December 19, 2011, 08:59:31 PM
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That's why I post so much. So people can see how it plays out. The good the bad the ugly the cycling and fears. People who may never post and I know you're out there  ;), need the information. So they can see
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#24: December 19, 2011, 11:30:52 PM
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That's why I post so much. So people can see how it plays out. The good the bad the ugly the cycling and fears. People who may never post and I know you're out there  ;), need the information. So they can see

I became aware of the "lurkers" when I started getting PMs from them asking me various questions along the way; there are a couple who STILL PM me from time to time; but they won't start a thread...but that's OK, as long as they can read what's here, and still learn from it. :)
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Re: I want to wish everyone a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS....
#25: December 19, 2011, 11:35:02 PM
I have never posted. I don't feel I can for a few reasons. And yes, I am one who reads these posts from so many of you again and again to try one more time to accept my spouse's growing up process - which, thanks to you all here, I understand will continue for an indefinite period of time and become whatever it will become and may not be in my favor and is not in my control, except for the making sure I grow my own self up part. And your community has helped me find my courage to understand and begin to do that. And even though I am silent here in the ether, I am becoming more compassionate for my fellow humans as I go through this process and that is expressed openly toward my friends and family and community. So yes, your words help guide the lurkers in pain in the night, but eventually your words go even further than that. And I thank you all. 
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#26: December 19, 2011, 11:51:28 PM
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Re: I want to wish everyone a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS....
#27: December 20, 2011, 02:28:41 AM
Thank you HB and thank you all. (Striving, I too was a 'lurker' for a long time ... )

I really do hope that everyone; posters, lurkers, those in the first stages, and those coming towards the end of their journeys ...  I hope we can all have a peaceful, calm and wonderful Christmastime, and that 2012 will bring joy and love into our hearts.

Lots of love xxxx
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#28: December 20, 2011, 03:21:12 AM
thank you hb. i hope you have a lovely christmas  and happy new year. i too was a lurker for about 4 months but glad i started posting. its great to read threads and give and take advice. i also pm you at one stage hb. you truly are a special lady with a heart of gold  ;D
i hope everyone here has a great christmas. i will be thinking about us all and our families. i will try and come on christmas evening to help anyone i can. stay strong everyone and remember we are all here to support eachother. love and hugs to you all  ;D ;D ;D
striver. get posting and join us lbs. we all help eachother along the way  ;D
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make the most of everyday. keep smiling and laughing. why because it makes us feel sooooo much better in ourselves :0)
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Re: I want to wish everyone a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS....
#29: December 20, 2011, 03:28:33 AM
May the joy of the season and the blessings that fall on us at this lovely time of the year carry us forward into a New Year full of positives.

Whatever road we are walking on and whatever the outcome may we always count our blessings and be grateful for the lovely things in our lives and the support we get as we move forwad.

MERRY CHRISTMAS to everyone and a peaceful, positive New Year in 2012.

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