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Off-Topic Thank you, RCR!
OP: December 26, 2010, 02:52:23 PM
Dear RCR,
I want to say THANK YOU.
I believe God is working through you.
I just wanted you to know that I appreciate all that you do.  It makes a real difference in people's lives.
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Re: Thank you, RCR!
#1: December 26, 2010, 03:40:26 PM
RCR,
I am not religious, but am spiritual and am ever so grateful to the existence of this site. I would be soon to be D without it. Don´t know what folks did before the existence of internet forums like this. RCR, you have lessened the emotional pain in the universe for so many people that you will never meet.
From the bottom of my heart,
Thank You,
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Re: Thank you, RCR!
#2: December 26, 2010, 04:15:54 PM
Yes, THANK YOU!!!

Right now this forum is my lighthouse.  I don't think I would have made it through the last few months without this site and the knowledge it has brought me.

I would have really believed this was all my fault and been lost as to what I did wrong. 
What a Blessing!
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#3: December 26, 2010, 04:16:02 PM
RCR me too - this site gave me hope in my darkest moment and continues to do so as I know it does for so many, you are testament to someone who followed their bliss and in doing so gave so much to others

thank you

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Re: Thank you, RCR!
#4: December 26, 2010, 04:23:31 PM
It is an answered prayer. A place to go for support at all hours. Important at first when you have trouble sleeping. Or when something happens and you need input right away.
We've made lifetime cyber friends here. Relationships we would not have been able to have any other way.

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Re: Thank you, RCR!
#5: December 26, 2010, 06:52:16 PM
This is crazy because I was thinking how I wanted to extend my appreciation to RCR.  This site appeals to me for so many reasons but mostly I think it really showcases and satisifies the intellectual side of MLC.  RCR you are incredibly knowledgable and share that knowledge in a way that is approachable.  As an educator I can appreciate that.  I also appreciate your and HB's "tell it like it is stance".  You each have your own style but it's clear that YOU don't sugarcoat it and for something like this you can't.  LBS are dealing with one of the most traumatizing experiences one can face and it's easy to lose site and get caught up in the crazy.  You do a good job of talking many down from the crazy tree but in a way that is intelligent.  Anyway this is what I appreciate because it appeals to my intellectual side and I believe it's what this site does well.   I mean is there really a place where you can get all the information about the "WHOLE of MLC".  I would imagine not.  THank you RCR...really.....really....really
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Re: Thank you, RCR!
#6: December 26, 2010, 11:39:21 PM
I want to add my thanks, it has been a godsend to me to have the knowledge but also the warmth and care that you put into your words.
It has helped me understand the madness, but more importantly helped me to look at myself and not be frightened of that experience as it includes positives too.
Thanks RCR and I hope the new year brings you peace, joy and new beginnings.
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Re: Thank you, RCR!
#7: December 27, 2010, 06:42:09 AM
 :)RCR,

     I need to tell you also that you have saved myself and my immediate family, as well as extended family and friends much grief!  having just found out days before Christmas that my H had been lying about an OW, if it had not been for me already having read the reasons....I very much need the reasons....I do not know what could have happened to myself and my family.  After a few days of intense grief, I went back and read the info. about MLC and OW`s and it gave me comfort and Hope.  I have a strong Christian faith, and I am sure God is using you to bring hope to so many, as well as healing!  May God Bless you and your H in the most profound ways!

Thank you and God Bless!
Thank you so much for your article on Christmas Day even!

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Re: Thank you, RCR!
#8: December 27, 2010, 08:45:46 AM
I just wanted to add my thanks too RCR. Without this wonderful formum, I think I would have seriously lost my mind. words can't express how comforting all the information you have provided to all of us in this unfortunate situation has been to me. there are few angels in the world.... YOU ARE ONE OF THEM.

GOD bless you!
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Re: Thank you, RCR!
#9: December 27, 2010, 09:44:43 AM
You all are so sweet. Me an Angel--Sweetheart would find tht so funny!

But let's not forget the many-eyed and always watchful OldPilot. He reads all, he sees all...maybe he even has a list he checks twice... And a bunch of MLCer's probably got coal in their stockings.

And HeartsBlessing. She brings us her inspiration, her intution, her experience and her love.

Thank you to all of you.
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