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Off-Topic Re: Mid and East US Meetup #2
#70: August 28, 2015, 05:49:34 AM
At McDs awaiting Book...
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That's was some f*cked up sh!t! I don't ever have to do that again!

Why are you holding on to that? How is it serving you?

One does not make the trip to he!! And back without acquiring transferable skills!

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Re: Mid and East US Meetup #2
#71: August 28, 2015, 10:28:19 AM
Well here's a first. I think I'm the first one here. Anybody? Anybody? 

Where is the bail express?
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Re: Mid and East US Meetup #2
#72: August 28, 2015, 11:17:09 AM
Oh no... 1st at the bar. Bail where are you!!
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Re: Mid and East US Meetup #2
#73: August 28, 2015, 12:12:57 PM
Book & Medusa one hour out.  We took a detour through Gettysburg.
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Giving up does not always mean that you are weak; sometimes it means you are strong enough to let go.

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Re: Mid and East US Meetup #2
#74: August 28, 2015, 12:23:21 PM
Four shots and seven beers ago... Nah was still standing.  ;)
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Re: Mid and East US Meetup #2
#75: August 28, 2015, 04:54:45 PM
I'm here. Call me, Nah. I inboxed you my number. I'm in Neptune.
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Re: Mid and East US Meetup #2
#76: August 28, 2015, 08:15:36 PM
I wish all of you a wonderful time together. The times I have met other LBSers have been really important in my path towards healing. There really is nothing like it in the world that to meet face to face the people that you have written to and read one another's stories.

I found it hard not to call each person by their HS name....for I will forever associate that name with the person.

This will be a time of real learning, intense but I think you will all come away feeling better.

I shall be keeping you in my prayers for a wonderful and healing time spent with one another.
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" The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it". Flannery O'Connor

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Re: Mid and East US Meetup #2
#77: August 29, 2015, 01:19:57 AM
No doubt, have a great time! It's one of those times I wish the forum wasn't anonymous, so we could see some pictures. :)
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Re: Mid and East US Meetup #2
#78: August 29, 2015, 02:04:14 AM
I agree Ready but hopefully we will see some pics on FB.  : )

Hope everyone is having a good time.

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