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#100: November 02, 2011, 10:21:19 AM
When you want to smile, just stand up, turn on the radio and dance!  Don't worry you don't have to dance alone just dance with the rest of the world:  ;D

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Re: GAL: Ideas, Inspiration, Hobbies, Advice
#101: November 06, 2011, 04:41:59 PM

So I decided to do something I always wanted to do for H, but never did.  I never spent money on myself since there was always some other thing that seemed more important.  It's funny that now with half our former household income, I feel like I have more money.  And I am anonymous here, so I can say stuff I could only tell a couple friends!  I have some ugly spider veins I started getting when I was 14 and though the rest of me has aged pretty well (I even get carded now and then!) my legs made me look like I was 50, so I decided to have them lasered, but right before I made the appointment, I WON a treament.  So, I decided to pay for laser hair removal instead.  After losing weight on the divorce diet, upgrading my wardrobe with the new job, and now my legs look young again and I am mostly hairless, I FEEL awesome.  I never admitted how bad my legs made me feel to anyone but H, but it was so much worse than I thought and now when summer comes again, I'll be able to wear shorts and short skirts and sleeveless shirts and feel really good!  Anyway, it really isn't GAL, but I am so happy about it, I had to tell someone!!!  Love and light, Lisa     
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Re: GAL: Ideas, Inspiration, Hobbies, Advice
#102: November 06, 2011, 04:49:40 PM
Congratulations Lisa!
I think it is GAL.  You'll feel so great about yourself.
Enjoy short shopping!
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Re: GAL: Ideas, Inspiration, Hobbies, Advice
#103: November 06, 2011, 05:41:20 PM



That's wonderful Lisa! I enjoyed reading that! It is getting a life because you embraced happiness.:)
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#104: November 06, 2011, 07:41:39 PM
Awesome Lisa.  Good for you.  That must feel great!   :D
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Re: GAL: Ideas, Inspiration, Hobbies, Advice
#105: November 08, 2011, 12:57:05 PM
LL,

What  a result!!!

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Re: GAL: Ideas, Inspiration, Hobbies, Advice
#106: November 10, 2011, 11:07:07 AM


#? This is the best facial I've ever tried ~ Aztec Indian Healing Clay. The small ( 1 lb. ) lasts for a very long time and a little bit goes a long way. You can mix it with a little bit of milk or plain yogurt and it works great. I love it and it's very calming but it's very powerful! You'll definitely feel it working! :o
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Me 35 ~ Pisces   
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I was 13 ~ he was 15 ~ Together for 19 years. Doomed from the start?
We never married ~ no children ~ two cats ~ Bomb Drop ~ 6/22/09 ~ he left to be w/ the Op & Op's kid
Atomic Bomb Drop ~ 3/22/12 ~ found out they had a child in early February, 2012 ( 2 weeks before my BDay )

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Re: GAL: Ideas, Inspiration, Hobbies, Advice
#107: November 11, 2011, 08:58:56 AM
I think many of us do these things but it's nice to have a list

http://livethecharmedlife.com/2010/10/100-things-to-do-when-the-worst-happens/
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Re: GAL: Ideas, Inspiration, Hobbies, Advice
#108: November 11, 2011, 10:14:05 AM



Nice list Dandy!
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Re: GAL: Ideas, Inspiration, Hobbies, Advice
#109: November 11, 2011, 10:34:45 AM
Going to a Zumba class tonight...I hear it's a good workout and releasing stress!!

I have never been but thought I would try, anyone done this before??
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