[nah]

I'm not interested in girls if anything they get on my t*ts (a U.K. Expression)

    Never heard that one before... 

...I spent years living the life of a junkie (I never used he did)

drank more, took cocaine. Very standard replay type stuff I guess.

Are there any MLCers out there that don't have some kind of addiction??

And then after a while I just got a lot of 'I made the right decision' as answers to my question if 'are you happy now'

As you know by now, that's why we don't ask them questions. 

[Acorn]

He told me when MLC came spilling out, "I know exactly how to kill. Yoel."
I responded, "You need some help.  How about seeing our family doctor first?"
He said, "You think I'm depressed!  I AM NOT DEPRESSED!!!!!!!!!!!"
I walked away.

Another one.
H: We should not have gotten married.  We don't have the same hobbies. You don't like swimming.
Acorn: you should have married your clone. 
That smart ass remark was made before I learned anything about MLC..

[Acorn]

Oops, darn auto correct.  It should have read "I know how to kill mysef."

[sparklestar]

Nah. Yes, no point asking any questions what so ever. The sooner an LBS gets that the better - utter nonsense!

[bluerose]

        Last august, when h wanted a face to face after 8 months of nc, he told me he wasnt happy and didnt desire the ow. He wanted to work on our marriage. He then said that if he told the ow this and shipped her back off to Tennessee and decided after that he didnt want me he would lose everything. That to me meant all the furniture she brought with her since he had nothing to furnish a house.

[What now]

I got "remember, in the future, you did this. You made all this happen. It's all down to you and you couldve stopped it happening". This was after a little row about something completely insignificant, think it was because I wouldn't let the dog on the sofa.

I also got "the kids do what you want and you never stop them" and, shortly afterwards "youre controlling, all you do is tell the kids what to do. If they breathe wrong, they get it. Ask them"

I remember a really funny row, just before BD#1 about takeaway/takeout. We were having kebabs and I always have them in pitta bread. He asked for his in a naan bread and even wrote it down because the place I was using was closed and he said I was having issues with my memory at the time (it was him remembering things wrong).

 Anyway, I ordered, it came and I gave him his. He asked what it was and I told him it was what he asked for. He spent 15 minutes, while it was going cold, throwing a strop and pushing it away saying I never listen and I got it wrong. He was so upset. I got the paper he had wrote on and even that didn't convince him he wanted the blooming naan bread! And he said i was trying to control what he ate after that! I tried to laugh with him about it later but, apparently, it wasn't funny and shown him everything that was wrong with our relationship (it did, he asked explicitly for something and tended to want something different so i couldn't win!)

I'm not a skinny girl but I'm not big either. One day, out of the blue, he turned to me and said "youre the first fat girl ive been in a relationship with". This confused me. Firstly, it sounded like we had just got together, not that we had been together for nearly 13 years. He said it with a child like grin, like he wanted me to fall into his arms and be grateful, or he wanted congratulating or something. These are just a few that stick out.

[Shining Star]

My very favorite as he walked out after 20 years:  we aren't a family, we are just in a relationship.  Ouch!

[Loyal]

Here`s just a few of the hundreds of things that he has said;

- I haven`t moved out because you`re a good Person
- You`ll see what belongs to you when I move out, I`m not going to leave one nail on the walls (he`s keeping his word there and has made a very good start 
- I hate you and should have left you years ago
- I know that you will always stand by me, no matter what
- I tell everybody exactly what I think and if they don`t like it, then that`s their problem
- I want to start a new life
- We`re like brother and sister
- I`m still extremely good looking for my age and all F`s fall at my feet
- I`m 17 years old and it`s strange that you ask (in answer to my question ) because other F`s have often asked me that too

After he returned last December (he was gone 4 weeks) when I mistakenly thought that he had reached  RB and wanted us to R;
- I´m useless
- I was on the search for a GF who loves me, not sex
- I was living a superficial life with false friends
- I was so stupid and blind, you`re the best thing that I ever had and I don`t want to lose you (he obviously forgot that very quickly again)

A couple of days before he left in the middle of April;
- I`m sorry that you wasted 30 years of your life with me
- I fell madly in love with a blonde angel last night and she`s my new GF (fantasy???)
- I`m so sorry about how badly I treated **** (a certain F who I know for certain has always fancied him), she`s been madly in love with me for practically 30 years,  I always led her on but never took her up on the chances she gave to me

It would be impossible to write down everything that he`s said, as that together with all the lies that he concocted would fill a large book.

[Kintsugi]

Mine never really dated.  and in the midst of this MLC, said how he never really dated, as if he missed out.  He chose not to date, and would often say throughout the years that he didn't miss out.  Then the troll, who sleeps around at work, comes along and he has regrets. 

[maomina]

I remember another on were ex had said " all those years " as if he had wasted so much of his time by being with me ......I don t get this victim mode he s in and really can t imagine him in the position he s left me ! And I also can t understand how his family after seeing all the destruction still side with him through their actions