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Interacting with Your MLCer Re: Valentines Day
#120: February 14, 2011, 11:20:51 AM
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I was expecting nothing so this is big to me!!!
It is big. i think it is the first time in months she has acknowledged you isn't it??? YaHoo!
(((hugs))) for you ready.


BTW...I replied with a "I am enjoying the salad you sent in".....  (last night he sent DS home with a salad for me from the restaurant they went to)
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Re: Valentines Day
#121: February 14, 2011, 11:21:26 AM
Yeah Congrats Ready. Baby steps.

(Best I can hope for is more drama)
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Re: Valentines Day
#122: February 14, 2011, 11:26:25 AM
That is good, she has done something not entirely self-absorbed. That is good news.  :D
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Re: Valentines Day
#123: February 14, 2011, 11:38:22 AM
Ready,
That is surprising.  And, actually kind of ....nice.

She is thinking of you.  Good for her. 

You deserve it. 

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Re: Valentines Day
#124: February 14, 2011, 11:40:18 AM
Ready

that seems like a significant gesture, hope it made your valentines day

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Re: Valentines Day
#125: February 14, 2011, 12:04:25 PM
Very ............ sweet and hoepfully the beginning of more and more kind thoughts as you deserve it  X b
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Re: Valentines Day
#126: February 14, 2011, 12:17:55 PM
It's about friggin time Ready!!!! >:( >:(

Sorry I'm not very patient as of late  ::) ::)
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Re: Valentines Day
#127: February 14, 2011, 12:19:57 PM
Congrates, Ready.  I know you truly deserve it.  Hopefully, this is a step towards bigger and better things to come.  You enjoy it.
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Re: Valentines Day
#128: February 14, 2011, 12:33:30 PM
That's nice, Ready.

I got a note from my H this morning. It said, "I paid the mortgage, the checking account is low."

Not quite the Valentine note I was hoping for........
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Re: Valentines Day
#129: February 14, 2011, 12:39:32 PM
Quote from: readytofixmyselffirst on February 14, 2011, 11:04:06 AM
Working in my office and I got a call from my w to meet her in the front. She brought me StarBucks for Valentine's Day. How Sweet. I was expecting nothing so this is big to me!!!

That is awesome! Take it for the win that it is.
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