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Interacting with Your MLCer Re: Valentines Day
#140: February 14, 2011, 04:00:50 PM
Valentines Day is officialy over ..............................

yeah!!!!

Now all I have to wait for and see is wil l he say Hi to his horrible and evil nasty spouse on her birthday next Thursday?

Last year I was so lucky - don't all of you  get jealous because he sent me a text said
H. B'day
(only joking) !

The year before nothing .. so last year I though ahhh so sweet, well  from a MLC er hey!!

PLEASE NOTICE how very low .......... my expectations are, this year I am hoping for the missing words -

appy and irth- pray he makes it happen for me!!
Then i will sleep with a happy heart

 ;D :D ;D :D ;)

 
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Re: Valentines Day
#141: February 14, 2011, 04:11:10 PM
Every day now I pray when I open my emails there's nothing from him...and I've been VERY happy there isn't!!

No news is good news.
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Re: Valentines Day
#142: February 14, 2011, 04:16:00 PM
I feel the same exact way.  Glad this day can be put behind us.  I also hate seeing any emails from my xH.  Of course, even when he sends something it is nothing close to anything personal.  He treats me like I'm a coworker...........oh, but wait, that's not right........he treats them better than me.  I have envisioned him checking his mailbox this evening with a slight "hope" of getting a Valentine's Day card from me.............but the joke is on him.........cause I didn't send one! Ha!
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Re: Valentines Day
#143: February 14, 2011, 04:34:51 PM
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a card with one of the creepy smiling dogs with human teeth that says "You make me smile
  ok..getting no acknowledgement is definitely better than that!


I love the sense of humour and resignation on here today....YEAH Ready's wife!!!! and Still.....what goes through their minds?

I sent my Beloved a brief "blessing this morning"..no Happy VD   ..haven't heard back at all...I find that interesting actually as I think he is afraid of how he feels and cannot respond..same thing happened with no Christmas greeting...

Because he's a vanisher, every now and then I feel the need to reach out a bit..I know, that may be seen as pursuing and perhaps was not appropriate but I figure..what the heck, I have absolutely nothing to lose.

So glad you all talked me out of baking those cookies!
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Re: Valentines Day
#144: February 14, 2011, 04:40:33 PM
You got it! That's why I dumped EVERYTHING on him, EVERYTHING I needed and wanted to say, so I could just GET ON WITH IT!!
I just don't care anymore what his problem is I needed to do something for ME for a stinkin' switch! Nothing to lose is the motto. He's already gone....whoever that thing was and I hope he doesn't come back. And if he does with any luck for him ( or I ) he will be somebody different!!
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Re: Valentines Day
#145: February 14, 2011, 05:19:20 PM
Well today was strange for me. After doing everything to push yesterday I take W to lunch today.
When I drop her off at work I say "tell me you love me" and she says "I DO love you" so I said,
thanks! I've never told her to tell me that before, out of character for me.
Then after work I get a V card that talks about husband, wife stuff and at the end says I love you.
W write, " I do" after that.
Maybe she needs to be told what to say and think about for a while. VERY strange, but a nice end
to the day.
Still, I'm home and she's not so.......

You folks on here are in my prayers, no one deserves to be left behind like this. Every one of you are somebody's
heroes. I've been thinking lately, I am my children s earthly father and I try to do my best just as God is our heavenly
Father. I need to be as Christ-like as possible for my kids. (well it made sense until I tried to put it into words)
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Re: Valentines Day
#146: February 14, 2011, 05:27:30 PM
Hey Blue, sounds like you were one of the lucky ones.
Ready, maybe by Easter you'll get Starbucks and a donut to go with-LOL!
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Re: Valentines Day
#147: February 14, 2011, 05:33:51 PM

 My H Called me 15 minutes before he got off work,

H " Just wanted to call and say Happy Valentines" I said "Thanks, Happy Valentines to you too"

He then told me about his day at work briefly...Then spoke of him forgeting to call his F and wish him Happy Bday. ( which is on the same day as our D) He then said..." If I dont talk to you later, have a wonderful night" I said "Thank you, you too"

H " I love you" Me " I love you too" bye

It was nice...he hadn't called me to just chat in a couple weeks. and hadn't said " I love you" in that time as well.



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Re: Valentines Day
#148: February 14, 2011, 05:40:57 PM
Hey it's worth a shot...sounds like something I might try in the future... only I'll tell him it's OK if he lies.
Tell me you love me..I like that!
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Re: Valentines Day
#149: February 14, 2011, 07:34:05 PM

 I just got the BEST valentines day gift EVER!  ;D ;D

My D13 went shopping with her cousins and came back with a bouquet of flowers and a necklace with a pendant
the says... #1 Mom.


Awwww...I just Love her! My heart saviour!
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Married 16 yrs Together 25 yrs
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living with OW 12/10
OW moved out 03/11
H moved home 06/11
Affair ended 05/12 again and again and again
H Blocked xOW from contacting Him 10/12
Ended ALL contact with xOW Dec 26th 2012 (So I thought!) I filed for D June 10th 2013
Moved out.

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"Never, ever be afraid to do what's right, especially if the well being of a person is at stake. Society's punishments are small compared to the wounds we inflict on our soul when we look the other way."

"What if you woke up today with only the things you Thanked God for yesterday?"
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