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Interacting with Your MLCer Re: Valentines Day
#150: February 14, 2011, 08:02:54 PM
It continues. My w called from her work where she does taxes and wanted to know if I would stop by. I said, "Sure". I had a thank you card for her. I took it in  and she had a big Valentine's Day cookie for the girls and I.

I took it with a smile and she seemed so happy about it.

No "I love you", but the thoughts for the day are really good. (((Hugs)))
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Re: Valentines Day
#151: February 14, 2011, 08:06:07 PM
Sounds good, Ready!! :)

I got a gift, too. I was shocked.
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Re: Valentines Day
#152: February 14, 2011, 08:15:00 PM
Yay! Trusting, what did you get?

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Re: Valentines Day
#153: February 14, 2011, 08:21:06 PM
A rose in a gorgeous vase. :)
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Re: Valentines Day
#154: February 14, 2011, 08:22:26 PM
Fabulous!
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Re: Valentines Day
#155: February 14, 2011, 08:28:50 PM
It was beautiful.  It was one rose more than I thought I would get. ;D  He also brought the kids some gifts.

Actually, one of the best things was that he was home in time for dinner and helped S with his homework. 
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Re: Valentines Day
#156: February 14, 2011, 08:54:16 PM
Thanks for the laughs tonight!  The creepy smiling dog card and the H.Bday text - haha!!!

My H ended up bringing home a rose and box of candy for me and both of our daughters.  Identical gifts for all of us.  He did this last year too.  He obviously doesn't love or want me, but wanted to give the girls a gift and knew it would be awkward if he didn't give me one too.  I said thank you, but just couldn't muster up any excitement.  It means nothing and I know it.  I didn't give him anything so that will feed his "victimness"...which I'm sure isn't a word.  :)

Lately I'm so aware of how different I'm feeling.  Nothing he does gives me hope like it used to.  It's like I turned some kind of corner, have accepted the truth and my feelings are as dead now as his.  Oh well...better than bawling my eyes out every day!  I'll eat the chocolate and keep gaining back the LBS weight I had lost.   :P
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Re: Valentines Day
#157: February 14, 2011, 09:44:38 PM
There is no worries on our forum. As a practice, I routinely butcher the English language. However, if there is no such word, then why can I read victimness and define it as:

Victimness: An MCL condition when they take any action from rain falling to the LBSer sneezing to hard as a sign that the whole world, but especially is out to get them and make their world miserable thus denying then ultimate happiness.

Am I close?, did I "get" you? In these situations, LBSers share a common language and understanding. ((((Hugs))) and have a wonderful evening.
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Re: Valentines Day
#158: February 14, 2011, 10:11:56 PM
LOL Ready
My version is the LBS breathes and the MLCer believes it to be the reason their whole life is in ruins.
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Re: Valentines Day
#159: February 14, 2011, 10:38:45 PM
Ready and Shantilly ~ how happy I am to meet people who not only "get" where I'm coming from, but graciously embrace my made up MLC vocabulary!!!   ;D

Hasta La Vista Valentines Day!  Don't let the door hit ya!  Happy Tuesday everyone!
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