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#70: July 20, 2016, 12:57:12 AM
Beautiful words, Ursa. Thank you for the ritual, handpuppets.

The moon is still upsetting my sleep. Maybe in a couple of days or so, all will again be smooth, sleep wise.

Last night was awful... I had a very difficult time just getting to bed. Oddly enough, the previous 2 nights (Sunday and Monday) were OK... In addition to that, doggie has been restless the last couple of nights too...
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Re: Full Moon Alert II
#71: July 20, 2016, 05:39:12 PM
The moon is not stressing or enervating me, like some previous ones have. I am not agitated. Very calm, in fact. It is just that it does not allow me to sleep. I get to bed, I get all comfy and sleepy, then nothing. No sleeping.   

Hopefully, it will soon pass.  :)
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#72: July 20, 2016, 07:24:35 PM
I'm not sure what's going on I had such a meltdown the other day I ended up in bed after taking a med to calm me down. Cold cloths on my forehead and the back of my neck. I've had a few things going on but I really had no clue I'd deal with that kind of backlash.
I sleep fine.

The moon?  ???
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Re: Full Moon Alert II
#73: July 21, 2016, 04:40:59 PM
Yes, maybe the moon. Or you were too tired. The moon can add to the tiredness. Sleep a few hours last night. Lest see how it goes today.
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#74: July 21, 2016, 06:46:40 PM
There was a lot I was trying to deal with at once. Some loose ends (which have been resolved) and I had to attend something pretty emotional. Concerns about my cat. Took him to the vet. He's ok.

I have talked to people who say they don't sleep as well during the full moon. I don't think I ever really had that problem. But maybe the quality wasn't as good.

Interesting Ready2Transform  I saw a friends cat attack her. Drew blood and everything.There was no provocation for it. Never saw anything like that. The cat practically flung itself at her. I mean the vocalizations coming out of this animal were unreal.
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#75: July 21, 2016, 08:20:00 PM
Glad to know your cat is ok. Too many things at once, having to go to something emotional and full moon can leave one exhausted.

This full moon has been strange for me. The irritation or discomfort some full moons brings is not present, but the sleep does not come. I suppose the moon is going to have to wane at some point to reach the new moon.
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#76: July 21, 2016, 08:36:37 PM
I'm glad your cat is ok too, In It! Having been attacked unexpectedly by a cat I had a very long time ago, I hope your friend is alright. It's a jarring experience. Things definitely starting to calm down here, which is a relief.
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#77: July 22, 2016, 02:47:43 AM
She's ok..she said she looks at him differently now.

Thanks Anjae I'll keep that in mind. Be kind to you and rest. It must be awful to not be able to sleep.
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Re: Full Moon Alert II
#78: July 22, 2016, 03:00:47 AM
Hi Anjae,

The moon should be visibly waning Friday night or Saturday... Last night when I was out it was just a sliver away from full and if you weren't really looking for the full disk, you might not have even noticed... I too had the hardest time coming to rest last night... and had a very odd dream to boot so ...

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Re: Full Moon Alert II
#79: July 22, 2016, 04:51:36 PM
It was better last night. Not much sleep, but deeper and more restoring. Yesterday I did not notice it, but today I saw it was not longer completely full. What a relief.
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