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#10: January 14, 2016, 09:01:00 AM
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#11: January 14, 2016, 09:05:36 AM
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#12: January 14, 2016, 09:10:04 AM
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#13: January 14, 2016, 09:25:29 AM
BD 6 months from turning 50

Close male friend said he changed around 45
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#14: January 14, 2016, 09:30:26 AM
W changed around 45.  Coming up on her 50th birthday in February.
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Re: Age crisis hit your spouse
#15: January 14, 2016, 10:43:35 AM
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acted 15 when she left here.     Regressed from there to 10 or 11
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#16: January 14, 2016, 11:32:12 AM
Wife was 43, but she had started the cycle probably around when she turned 40. She took it hard. I noticed the dark lifeless eye look around the time she turned 42.

I'm 3 years older and poked fun and made playful old lady jokes, but she'd always playfully say she would always be younger than me.
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#17: January 14, 2016, 11:37:05 AM
40's seem to be the more "average" age so far.....
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Re: Age crisis hit your spouse
#18: January 14, 2016, 11:56:24 AM
Adding to the average

Male--47 at BD (but the anger started in his early 40s).
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Re: Age crisis hit your spouse
#19: January 14, 2016, 12:05:17 PM
Mine was 44 at the earliest stage.  46 at final Split.  Currently acts like a 17 or 18 year old and lives in the basement of a university student housing dorm.

J was 39.  He is now 51 and a fairly finished Galapagos Turtle.  He regressed to being a small child of 5 or 6 at the worst. 

J ex wife is now 51 and acts like she is 21.  She now wants to get a job so she can buy the clothes she likes without having to ask anyone's permission while still having the bills of daily life paid by daddy.
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