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#50: January 20, 2016, 11:04:08 AM
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#51: January 20, 2016, 11:23:40 AM
I'll keep adding these on and revise the list.
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#52: January 20, 2016, 11:31:19 AM
Male -39 at bomb drop. He will be 42 next month. He is not aging well at all and his health is awful. MLC is definitely taking its toll.
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Re: Age crisis hit your spouse
#53: January 20, 2016, 01:21:57 PM
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Re: Age crisis hit your spouse
#54: January 20, 2016, 01:36:47 PM
Just found this thread.
Exh was 40 at BD but his depression started at 38 when his business failed, so could be then.

As for pal, not sure, he has had many but he did buy a sports car when he was 40, which he has now sold because he could not afford it. Got told he had a heart problem at 30 which sent him a bit loopy, and now at 43 because of health and work issues but seems more depressed than a mlc start. Not sure when his anger really started as did not know him then, but I should say 30 possibly, although he has been depressed most of his life so many mlc??
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Re: Age crisis hit your spouse
#55: January 25, 2016, 05:00:33 AM
These were the results.  I'll close the discussion now but found it very interesting.  Thanks for all who participated.   :)
Still looks like women go through their crisis at an earlier age from what I can tell.

If there is no number next to it, only one was reported

Women
29
36
37
38-2
39-2
42-2
43
45
54
55

Men
34
36
38
39-2
40-4
41-2
42-4
43
44-6
45-5
46-4
47
48
49
50-4
51-2
54-2
55
56
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