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#10: January 24, 2016, 05:27:19 PM
Ladies (and gentlemen), a word of advise and caution.

The main board, where this thread is, is public. Anyone can read it.

Even without name and photos you are sharing another person personal info without their consent.

You would not like your MLCer to share your info, and posts, on the board, would you?

It also raises safety questions. Name and photo may not be here, but it is very simple to find someone with the info you are posting.

Sharing said info on your personal threads may not be right, but it gets diluted inside the thread. Here it stands out and is easily targeted.
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Re: MLCer Dating Profile
#11: January 24, 2016, 05:44:47 PM
Perhaps we should delete?  Entertaining for a little while, anyway.
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Re: MLCer Dating Profile
#12: January 24, 2016, 05:48:03 PM
Yes, I think it would be best. And safer.

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Re: MLCer Dating Profile
#13: January 24, 2016, 05:49:46 PM
Anjae - do what you think is best with this thread. It may not be tha right tone for the forum anyway.

I have no concern about sharing the profile - it was a public profile for all the world to see.
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Re: MLCer Dating Profile
#14: January 24, 2016, 05:52:21 PM
Couldn't care less what ex does or if found here.

So:

His profile:

I am a free spirit, a man of great dreams.
Few understand me.
For that reason I am often misunderstood.
I should have been born in a different time.
I am most similar to the great thinkers of the 18th century.
Honest
True
Passionate
Romantic
Strong
Manly

I speak 5 languages but prefer to converse in Russian.
I want to share the great novels and tragedies of Russian history with someone who can feel their passion.
I want to enjoy great classical music.
I look to share my love of history with an eager mind.

As you can tell from my photograph, I am an expert and accomplished body builder.
Therefore I cannot tolerate smokers or drinkers.
A clean body is necessary to commune with me.

I wish to find someone who fights for peace in the same way I do.
Someone bohemian, free spirited who can also understand the true meaning of the lyrics of the Foo Fighters.
Someone who can feel their music as I do.

I want to find someone to help me heal the devastation inflicted on my very soul by the cruel fates and a woman who could not love me as I loved her.

A woman to help me enjoy life again.
My ex had a brain tumor and has become someone I cannot love any longer, as she is not healthy nor happy.  And my soul can take no more.

PUKE PUKE PUKE
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Re: MLCer Dating Profile
#15: January 24, 2016, 06:05:19 PM
The whole thing sounds comically pompous but is that bit about the Foo Fighters for real?
Another thing that struck me was that my H could be really charming and funny but his profiles and emails he sent to some of the women were so lame.  I guess they really do have multiple personalities.
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Re: MLCer Dating Profile
#16: January 24, 2016, 06:09:16 PM
Yes, the Foo Fighters is real.  Suddenly he lived their music.

I thought it screamed MLC train wreck.

And this was while he was hot and heavy with the little girl.

The pompous a$$ put freedom fighter as his occupation.
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Re: MLCer Dating Profile
#17: January 24, 2016, 06:32:55 PM
You gotta love a man who is like a great thinker of the 18th century but needs a soulmate to explore Dave Grohl's wisdom.  I am speechless. 
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#18: January 24, 2016, 07:00:35 PM
When I was shown that profile by a mutual friend I laughed too hard to be upset that he was trolling dating sites. 

And he thinks I'm the one that had a brain tumor?

And if I did have a tumor, what woman would want a man who left a sick wife?  Yep that's an attractive quality in a future mate.

And just how much dies a freedom fighter earn and where would one find a job opening in that field?

Pompous A$$.

No wonder he had to stick with a little girl with mental health issues.  She's the only one that would find that profile intriguing.

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Re: MLCer Dating Profile
#19: January 24, 2016, 08:11:56 PM
You gotta love a man who is like a great thinker of the 18th century but needs a soulmate to explore Dave Grohl's wisdom.  I am speechless.
That^^^^. OMG, I'm still laughing.....
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