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#40: February 04, 2011, 12:57:28 PM
Oh Yuk the cup I mean ..........shred and be free and then the elephant can be happy too
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Re: Why are MLCr's so secretive?
#41: February 04, 2011, 01:02:46 PM
B..........you make me laugh!  I know, I can't believe I actually got it (cup) out of the garbage!  When I told my xH that I knew he was in yet another affair (second one) he was very "smug" about it.........so very hurtful......and it was on my Birthday that I discovered it!  My xH commented at one point during the beginning of all this garbage that I should have been a detective.  Ha, ha. 

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Re: Why are MLCr's so secretive?
#42: February 04, 2011, 01:10:56 PM
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Sherd it.. I have a year and 7 months worth..naked pic of her on his phone that he took, gifts in our home (clothes and ps2 and cell phone)..He wears the clothes and used the phone and plays with ps2,,,also have the tattoos on his body she paid for... Get rid of all of it....It is piontless for you. I am looking pass as much as I can to not think of it when I see the tattoos and clothes... makes me sick but I have to be better then that. It hurts alot...but you can do it...It is so hard. and I live it everyday...
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Re: Why are MLCr's so secretive?
#43: February 04, 2011, 01:18:00 PM
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    I plan to start the shredding/trashing right away.  I think my mouth dropped open when I read the part about the tattoo!!  That's awful!  that thing will always be a reminder!  How terrible!  I can't imagine having to live with all that!  This crisis crap is bad enough without having something like that to look at!  Bless you. 
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#44: February 04, 2011, 01:20:25 PM
and guess what they are... a celtic cross on his arm (so God is always with him) and 3 5 piont stars on the side of his stomatch...Isnt that so nice.....Oh there is so much more I dont even want to say...cause it cause to much pain...
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#45: February 04, 2011, 01:27:13 PM
I can only imagine.........how sick!  I'd almost be tempted to take a blow torch to those tats!  I know they can be removed but I'm sure the process is expensive.  It saddens me so much.........all this nonsense and unneccessary pain! I honestly believe that God knew what he was doing when he provided Adam with Eve...............women are so much stronger than men (no offense to the men here).  We endure childbirth, raise kids, keep houses clean, work, cook, take care of the sick, etc., etc.  Women rule!!  Sorry, Guys!
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Re: Why are MLCr's so secretive?
#46: February 04, 2011, 01:35:56 PM
Thanks we will try but its not too hard - we do laugh a lot ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
re the tatoos - imtroduce him to Angelina !!

Lets face it - it's the only way to stay sane in this crazy life we are all part of

BUT I do feel so sorry for my H as he is missing out on so much - he will never be part of our memories whilst he's been gone and (when he speaks to me now he is now continually asking me questions about what I do and when and etc and he remembers things I have told him ..spooky !!)  he tries to pretend to himself he's still part of us, funny one I was talking to S about a neighbour and he kept butting in going back in time and S kept looking at me and when H turned around he mouthed 'crazy'. But it doesn't last THEN zap he's back to running as fast as he can no looking back and a man on  a mission again.........

I get worried that once he has solved the issues from his past well how is he then going to have the ability to solves the issues hes recently created  - ?

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Re: Why are MLCr's so secretive?
#47: February 04, 2011, 01:42:12 PM
Very good question...........how will they repair/fix damage they created in this madness, i.e. job situations.  I decided I can't worry about it.  My xH thinks he's going to be happy again once he moves away, finds another job, etc.  It's like he truly believes that he's going to start "fresh"........I don't get it.  He is living in the "I'll be happy when.............??????" world............I know, he's got to look within himself to find the real happiness.  I tried to tell him that happiness isn't a place, stuff, money, things or even people.  He gave me the blank stare...............deer in the headlights look.  My xH also told me many times that he couldn't "untie" the knots.  So, sad...........such a waste.  I want to wake up from this nightmare!
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Re: Why are MLCr's so secretive?
#48: February 04, 2011, 01:45:39 PM
Quote from: LoveMyMan on February 04, 2011, 01:42:12 PM
  He is living in the "I'll be happy when.............??????" world

Hey!!........my H lives there........have you got directions?   ;D

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Re: Why are MLCr's so secretive?
#49: February 04, 2011, 01:54:47 PM
 :o They are so crazy... They can fix it if they wanted to...It is a choice...they are just lazy..to much work to repair the damage THEY caused and if they do that then they will have to look at who they became and how they treated the people who were/are there for them with REAL love..I wish so badly that none of this was happening to any of us.. But one way to look at it is God must really feel we are strong people cause alot of people would not make it and hold it together. I know I can forgive my h but not until he will let me start to heal and that is when 3rd party is out of the picture.
Do you know he will hug me and love on me one day and the next he is cold and distant.. One day he will say I hear what you are saying and the next it is I will do what I want.. okay but do they understand we are in limbo not knowing.  I mean he talks to me like I am a roomate... hey whats up and what are your plans for the weekend???? WTH is that??? about 3weeks ago he started to opne up,,,,, saying no sure if we are going to make it... I have feelings for her.... and no I am not conntected to you.. then turned around the next day and said... I feel so stuck.. I dont know what I want... I created the mess I have to clean it up.... but ladies I dont see much improvement on that end,,, I know nothing about what is going on except the texts are less and he is home more...that is it.
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