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My Story Reconnecting Re: Class of 2011...changes
#50: May 19, 2020, 03:57:11 PM
Wow jagger, 7 yrs but life sounds good in a normal kind of way? To me it’s sounds good as you say no eggshells or trust issues. Best of wishes for your house hunting and move home x
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Me 52
Divorced 3/dec/2019
Together 30yrs
BD 20/10/2014
Left first 12/12/2014
10 come backs and leaves again for same ow
Last left 7.03.17.
Ow 16 yrs younger, no children never been married. co worker. EA turned to PA and lives with ow
Divorce bomb drop by him 31/8/17 by solicitor letter after being caught by ow at lunch with me 3 wk earlier. Finances Not yet finalised.
Crazy divorce started by him.
Clinging boomerang for 3 yrs now Vanisher but  twice a yr pops his head up. ow has balls in a vice!

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Re: Class of 2011...changes
#51: May 19, 2020, 07:23:43 PM
Big hugs, Jagger! I'll pass that shout out along to Anjae (I think Stayed still pops in occasionally). You are certainly such a fantastic example of grace and strength. I can't imagine personally not having trust issues (but I never saw a true peek out of this from him), but at the same time, I know it can happen, and it couldn't have happened to a better person. It sounds like you took it slow enough in rebuilding a foundation, which is still understandably a work in progress, but that slow build is key. And not losing yourself to HIS crisis. Always prayers and vibes going your way that your family continues to get stronger and stronger, and those years are eventually able to be put in the rear view.
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