I thought it might be interesting to discuss some of the insanity. Now let me start off by saying I wish the exH no harm. However I am human, and when the Karma Bus runs him over or bumps him a bit......well let's just say "I ain't mad about it
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I guess I will start the drive on the Karma Bus with a story some of my old friends here will remember.
About 4 months after BD and the exH had run off over 1000 miles away to chase his fantasy OW, she attempts to swallow a bottle of pills. ExH and her had taken a little break but we're still texting/talking all the time. ExH gets a phone call informing him of the suicide attempt so he dashes off to the hospital to be a knight in shiny tinfoil. He comes bearing gifts for his damsel in distress. Flowers and a hospital appropriate nightie for her. He arrives to her room to find the doctor and another man in the room (not HER H-yes she was married too). The doctor looks at exH and random man and asks who they are to his patient. ExH says "I am Jr, I have dated Damsel for about 5 months." Random Man says "I am Brad and I have dated Damsel for about 3 months."
ExH states that he was never more humiliated in his entire life. His humiliation however was short lived because he and Damsel were back together in fantasy land shortly thereafter.
Later I will come back and share some more adventures on the Karma Bus, but I will give others a chance.
This journey contains so much heart break, sadness, and pain. We need to be able to look back on these things and laugh at how ridiculous the things they say, and the things they do are. I think it is a huge part of not allowing MLC to make you bitter. Laughter, and love of life is the best medicine for healing.
So ALL ABOARD the HS Karma Express, all are welcome.