Author Topic: Forum-Info Keeping your forum profile current  (Read 2324 times)

Offline AirmidTopic starter

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Forum-Info Keeping your forum profile current
« on: November 28, 2016, 09:57:04 AM »
Hello HS members.

Is your HS forum profile filled out and current?

The forum profile helps all of us - mentors and posters alike.
It tells us the basics we need to know if we are unfamiliar with your story.
Things like # or children and age is so uselful.
When was BD?
Is your current status still applicable?
Have you divorced, separated etc and not updated your profile?

Please take a moment to look at the profile you have on HS - and add missing items - or correct things that have become outdated.

Also I want to take a moment to remind you that your can opt to be listed in the geographical members list
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3261.0

This can help people (especially newbies) reach out to LBSers who may live close.

Thanks for your attention to this matter!

Air



« Last Edit: March 26, 2018, 09:16:06 AM by OldPilot »


Offline Thunder

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Re: Keeping your forum profile current
« Reply #2 on: November 28, 2016, 02:23:20 PM »
It would be nice to get everyone's location updated.
It's been a few years.
With her permission, a quote from a recovered MLCer: 
From my experience if my H had let me go a long time ago, and stop pressuring me, begging, and pleading and just let go I possibly would have experienced my awakening sooner than I did.

Offline bookwrmmom

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Re: Keeping your forum profile current
« Reply #3 on: November 29, 2016, 05:04:56 PM »
Done!
M-44 at BD (now 47)
H-47 at BD (now 49)
Tog-16 1/2 yrs
M-16yrs
Kids- S23, S24, D18 at BD
BD-2/15/2014
Left-2/17/2014
OW1-fantasy ended in less then a year
OW2- briefly dated-she said he was not a happy enough person
OW3-post divorce so not really OW, he is a free agent now
Divorce-10/5/2015
Giving up does not always mean that you are weak; sometimes it means you are strong enough to let go.

Offline Notinlimbo

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Re: Keeping your forum profile current
« Reply #4 on: February 06, 2017, 06:06:44 PM »
Hi there. How do I reactivate my thread? I havent posted for a year or so. The old one is in archives. (Newbie Sharing) Or should I just start a new thread?
thanks Notinlimbo
Me 60
H 58
D 26
BD March 15
OW ex from 34 years ago PA

Offline LearningIamOk

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Re: Keeping your forum profile current
« Reply #5 on: February 16, 2017, 06:41:58 PM »
Notinlimbo, I would just start a new one and then we can find the old one and link them.

My profile is up to date.
« Last Edit: February 16, 2017, 06:44:40 PM by LearningIamOk »
trying2bok

Offline MendingLioness

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Re: Keeping your forum profile current
« Reply #6 on: February 21, 2017, 07:59:18 AM »
I feel it is time to change my name  :) How can I do that?
M 37
MLC H 41
Together 7 1/2 yrs
Married 5 yrs
Children:
 S 16 (dd) (Different father)
D7
S6

BD 1: January 2017 (D brought up)
 BD 2: Mid January (ILYBINILWY speech)
BD 3: March 2017 (OW confirmed- EA)/ Moved out
BD 4: July 2017 (Sexual relations with family member)
BD 5: August 2017 (Leaving country to meet OW)

No d filed as of January 2018 by either of us


 

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