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#10: December 24, 2016, 05:20:00 PM
Happy Holidays everyone! I had a great day until I had to drop my son off with H. H said in front of me to son how he had to come in and meet everyone (OW's family). It disgusted me. Now I'm home alone and very angry and hurt. H has this seemingly happy life and everyone is cosigning it. I've been doing great but feel very alone right now. It sucks H is all happy with OW and everyone around him is cosigning this crap. Really sucks. But, I know it is just a bad day and part of the healing process. Things will get better.
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M 4 years, together 7 1/2 years
Me 47
H 49
2014-2016: H withheld sex, love, affection, touch 100% of time.
BD1:07/20/16 "I'm not attracted to you anymore"--kicked H out and hasn't been back.
BD2: 10/17/16 OW, an ex-fiancee and an affair-down, confirmed.
Legal Separation: 10/27/16
Divorce Started: 12/2/16--I'm DONE!
Divorced 6/28/17

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Re: Happy Holidays
#11: December 24, 2016, 07:24:12 PM
More,

People in RL don't realize the op is nothing more than cocaine with a pulse. They think this is just a normal breaking up and moving on.
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Re: Happy Holidays
#12: December 25, 2016, 12:27:51 AM
Happy holidays to everyone! I hope despite the circumstances the special days are all satisfying with family and friends around. This is my sixth post-BD Christmas eve/morning and it is certainly much better than it was in 2011. Focusing on God, family, and hope. God bless you all.
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Re: Happy Holidays
#13: December 25, 2016, 04:01:24 AM
Happy Christmas to all of you and your children and your children's children. Ha and your loved ones weather still running gone or in-between.  2016 has been a journey in itself but look at your ups and downs. Cause that is progress for you alone. Peace and love.
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