Author Topic: My Story Am Losing My Wife and My Kids losing there Mom.  (Read 2503 times)

Offline Jay78Topic starter

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My Story Re: Am Losing My Wife and My Kids losing there Mom.
« Reply #60 on: November 16, 2018, 08:26:29 AM »
Hello everyone.

I know someone here has almost gone
Through this horrible story.

Of course younger children are involved
I live in a state 50/50 and they go by better school district no matter what.
 If I agree to one week on and off.  Then s9 and d10 go to W school district. Where the kids will all be together but
W doesn't be involved in anything with there school. 
I been going to school district and realize that W school and where I live school district numbers are literally 10 points off nothing more. So only 10 points s9 and d10 will have to start new school where also s10 goes. Remember since BD W has moved twice I since bd been 1yr and 8 months they almost 2yrs in school same school same friends and I did promise our children I would not move until they graduated from elementary school this is d10 last year and s9 next year. 

Also remember d10 is New to his school because W has moved twice. I been also that parent I make sure they do after school events, sports any family events I always been the chaperone for our kids.

W doesn't do anything with s10 I ask him you going to school dance nope. Or fundraiser nope. S10 does nothing is like wow.
D10 and s9 basketball, fundraiser, student council, Stem program anything the school does 85% chances we always there.
Also s9 and d10 are A's and some B honor roll. 

So I am asking any one here that has gone through this. Or has work with a case like this. Or knows anything about school how can I show and help my kids. 

I am ok with the one week on and off. I just want to show GAL all the facts.
At BD
Lesbian marriage
Me39,W36
S9,D9,S8 adopted all three
Together almost 10yrs
Bomb Drop - April 2017
W movedout - May,2017
OW  May orJune,2017 maybe even longer
Currently 2018
Me40, W38
S10,D10,S9
____________________________________________________
A  DAY AT  A TIME,  WITH GOD ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE

Offline Jay78Topic starter

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Re: Am Losing My Wife and My Kids losing there Mom.
« Reply #61 on: December 02, 2018, 01:25:34 PM »
Journaling, 

Wow what a day.. 

So quick run down W is in MLC and WAW 

So when W left, W took Bar, stereo system and half of closet 
And let's not forget cleaned bank account less than 500 in bank 
Literally W took every penny. And was using Credit cards. Rack up close
To $6,000 or more before I realized it and listened I never thought W would 
Do this to me or Trios 

So when I have to pack up a 3,000 square feet home, bestfriend 
Let me put items in Shed. 
Now BF is leaving so today I and friends went to put things in a 
Storage place. 

Wow just wow but No tears 
Even Friends that knew the story finally seen wow W did check out 
Found all W discharge papers from Military, all W awards and 
Accomplishments and purple heart and American flag W was given 

Also W was married yes to a Man found divorce papers 
W filed wow... 
Friends where at all why did W just leave all this and all
Family pictures, literally I have her life memories from childhood till 
Bd. 

I just look through important things and trash not important thing.

I also didn't realize W labels everything. How did I miss this.

Very organized 
But the most interesting thing lots of books of self image 
Before W met me. W has struggled with mental problems I also 
Didn't see it. Found journals of w before me. 

I respect W when we where together I never looked through her things 
I trusted this woman. 

Many emotions right now. Many memories 

I also did it this weekend because Trios are with her
I didn't want to bring memories for them.. 

I am more saddened then anything I didn't know W. I was so caught 
Up with work then kids I didn't realize W needed me more than ever


I now realize how I took W for granted. But here I am trying to be a better person for myself.
At BD
Lesbian marriage
Me39,W36
S9,D9,S8 adopted all three
Together almost 10yrs
Bomb Drop - April 2017
W movedout - May,2017
OW  May orJune,2017 maybe even longer
Currently 2018
Me40, W38
S10,D10,S9
____________________________________________________
A  DAY AT  A TIME,  WITH GOD ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE

 

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