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Offline Silver

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Discussion Re: Can you spot them a mile away!!
« Reply #20 on: August 18, 2017, 12:57:31 AM »
What??!!!!!! An accent??? Because you just wake up one day with a new British accent??!!!

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Can you choose the accent or language yourself? I would start my MLC just to get better english skills (or perhaps german or spanish).
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Re: Can you spot them a mile away!!
« Reply #21 on: August 18, 2017, 05:45:51 AM »
"He had an English accent for awhile and now wears John Lennon glasses."

Loud laugh in the office, thanks for that nah  ;D. what a hero

Don't thank me, thank the dumb@ss I married.

If he wants a shot at me he needs to change into the crocodile hunter next....

Nothing beats an Australian accent.   ;D ;D ;D
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Re: Can you spot them a mile away!!
« Reply #22 on: August 18, 2017, 02:29:17 PM »
I can't spot them right off but I look for them on the online dating site. Vain men want to make me scream and cover my eyes!!!!
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Re: Can you spot them a mile away!!
« Reply #23 on: August 18, 2017, 03:19:15 PM »
Funny about White clothing.    H has 2 white shirts, almost identical.   It's so if one gets dirty too quickly he has another one on Standby.   The shirt is clearly his favorite.   For some reason when he wears these white shirts there is a certain 'ick' factor, especially when he wears them with the stud like jeans with the faded hand rubbed sections on thighs front and back and the permanent creases they put in jeans now.   It's obvious to me that he thinks he's 'all that and a bag of chips' (at 61 yo) when he wears this outfit.   That outfit even changes how he walks (struts).    Before MLC all I got was the relaxed fit Levi's and baggy sweats around the house. 

On a serious note, some (all) of the transformations our MLC spouse goes through are very sad indeed.  Especially because they don't see themselves the way the real world sees them.   I am asking my H to move out in a few days and plan to have little or NC after.   What he is doing to himself during MLC is truly heartbreaking and I hope one day he comes through it and survives the intense guilt, shame and remorse when he realizes all that he's lost.   I am not sure how he will do with that either.   It worries me because I don't plan to be in his life anymore when he does.   But I love him enough to hope he will be okay.
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Re: Can you spot them a mile away!!
« Reply #24 on: August 18, 2017, 06:28:56 PM »
The only ones I have spotted are the obvious ones: older men with younger woman, walking arm in arm. My reaction is always "he looks ridiculous and old enough to be her father!"
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