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Off-Topic Blog: Love AnyWay
OP: March 19, 2011, 09:05:54 AM
Since I no longer have an announcement function and in case you don't look at the public board, here is my latest annoucenment.

The Blog is open!!!
 
Please check it out. You can sign up to receive posts in your email, follow me on Twitter and become a Fan of The Hero's Spouse at the Facebook Fan Page.



The blog is interactive--open to discussion! So please participate.
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Re: Blog: Love AnyWay
#1: March 22, 2011, 04:12:55 AM
GREAT STUFF RCR!!! You are my hero! :-)
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Re: Blog: Love AnyWay
#2: June 12, 2014, 08:39:33 AM
Taking this out of the archives if you click here you can get the latest blog post,

and I think it is a good one!
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#3: June 12, 2014, 09:10:18 AM
Thanks for dusting off the mothballs OP! And I do like the current blog...as you already know I am an avid proponent for exposing the affair post haste and holding the MLC accountable! This sets the LBS up to boundary this behavior and blast some light in the tunnel for what it's worth. If nothing else, the MLC knows you will stand up and not tolerate this behavior!


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Re: Blog: Love AnyWay
#4: June 12, 2014, 09:21:52 AM
Quote from: Darth Obo on June 12, 2014, 09:10:18 AM
Thanks for dusting off the mothballs OP! And I do like the current blog...as you already know I am an avid proponent for exposing the affair post haste and holding the MLC accountable! This sets the LBS up to boundary this behavior and blast some light in the tunnel for what it's worth. If nothing else, the MLC knows you will stand up and not tolerate this behavior!
Yes I have been asking her to write this one for a while and am actually a little surprised by her stance on exposure, but I will accept it and embrace it.
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#5: September 07, 2016, 07:22:13 PM
Where are all these artiicles? I can never seem to find them . I was wondering if someone can list all the ones rcr wrote. They are very comforting . Thanks
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Re: Love anyway
#6: September 07, 2016, 07:23:56 PM
The love anyway articles. I was looking for the one   ' how do you know its real '
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#7: September 07, 2016, 07:29:21 PM
Hi. Navigate around to the articles section and the blog posts. RCR really did a great job. There  is so much to read!

http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/index.html
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Re: Love anyway
#8: September 07, 2016, 08:37:22 PM
Elegance, that's so much for that link.  I didn't know how to find them either, but a saved a lot of them for myself years ago.

If you are on the page Elegance gave you go to the very bottom to find the Love Anyway links.
The very first one you'll see is about No Contact.  It explains the reason for newbies to NOT go NC in the beginning and why.

There has been a lot of discussion about this lately on a few threads.  Please read the article and discard anyone who tells you it is a good idea, it's not!
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Re: Love anyway
#9: September 07, 2016, 10:17:58 PM
No problem Thunder.

Keep Believing, I disagree with Thunder about No Contact and feel it's the best option in the beginning yet feel you should do what you can put up with and make your own decision.

My best to you.

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