[bluerose]

     Me too. I got that after i posted. This whole thing has upset badly.

[nah]

Bluerose, I think Nah's comment about learning from your mistakes was directed at the OP, not at all at you.

Yes, her name starts with "B" also.

I did not at all mean your past mistakes, Blue.

Believe me when I understand your anger.  In real life, I mad dog every single other woman that I come into contact, including my own sister.  I'm here though to learn and understand, maybe to help others in the future.  Maybe this person doesn't belong on this thread but I would sure love to see her opening up on a discussion thread, maybe "I was the other woman", so those of us that want to know can ask her questions.

[CallingHeart]

Humor me and let's just say she opens a thread called "I was the Other Woman (ignore this if you don't want to hear from me)"
What possibly can we learn from the OW that we DEEP DOWN don't ALREADY know.

Let's see...
Did your boyfriend (my H) lie to you?
               .....   uhhhh, yes he lied all the time the same way he lied to you

Why did you stay in a relationship when you knew he (my H) was married?   
               .....   it was fun and the sex was good because it had to be a big secret
               .....   because I love him and he loves me
               .....   and we are actually soulmates

What about the kids?  Do you realize how you ripped the hearts out of those 2 (3,4,5, even 1) innocent children?
               .....   the kids like being around me  (delusional)
               .....   I haven't met the kids and they don't know about me right now
               .....   the kids are heartbroken because of their mom and dad, not me

Why do you question whether or not you're the other woman?
              .....    I don't question it any more, that's why I wrote this thread

What would you say to your boyfriend's wife (me) if you saw her (me) on the street?
              .....    I would tell her to move on, he's not in love with her
              .....    we are soulmates
              .....    have you seen SCHMOOPIES? 

[bluerose]

     Very well put calling heart. I couldnt agree more and would she even tell the truth.

[Tyks]

I should post the email that i received from the ow in response to me calling her a homewrecker. Unfortunately I did not about hs the day of bd and I wrote her a nasty email. The reply she sent was ridiculous.

[nah]

Good point.

[bluerose]

     Tyks,
            If you want to share it please do.

[stillbaffled]

Just caught up on our vanisher thread.  Seems we have a bit of a debate going here.

I'll throw my two cents in but will wait to see if Banaynaboat drops in to continue posting. 

[nah]

Earlier I thought she might be someone with regrets who could possibly be reaching out and we could help each other.

If she doesn't respond then she just a typical other woman.

Selfish and/or stupid.

[bluerose]

  Probably both