Author Topic: My Story Reconnecting Life in a way-3  (Read 5652 times)

Offline Lastresort

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My Story Reconnecting Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #10 on: November 02, 2017, 04:05:40 PM »
Happy birthday thunder!!!!@

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #11 on: November 02, 2017, 05:19:11 PM »
Happy Birthday!!
H-54
me-52
ow-30
married 1986
BD April 6 2013 day after family went out for sons birthday.
I packed his bags two days later...semi-vanisher
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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #12 on: November 02, 2017, 08:47:02 PM »
Happy Birthday!
M-40
H-43
S-18
D-16
S-13
Friends 7y before M
Married 14y
BD 12/14/15 - 2 weeks after 14th anniv.
Divorce final 4/13/16
EA - 9/15-4/16
New GF 12/16
Engaged 6/17 (I found out 8/10/17)
Moved to her State 4 States away - 7/13/17
Eng. off 8/20/17
Moved back to our State 8/24/17
Saw his POF the first month back
1.5y later no signs of anyone new - workaholic

Link to my journey: 
https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=10630.new#new

"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass - it's about learning to dance in the rain."

"Don't become a container for bitterness.  It's a toxin that destroys what it's carried in."

"Sometimes - some things have to break apart so better things can be built."

"If we don't take time to heal, we will bleed on people who didn't cut us."

Offline Hawkeye

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #13 on: November 02, 2017, 09:00:40 PM »
Happy Birthday Thunder!

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #14 on: November 02, 2017, 09:31:35 PM »
Well, I'm late to the party but I sure didn't want to miss sending you birthday wishes, Thunder.  Hope you had a great day. 

More snow is on the way! 
After all, tomorrow is another day.
Together 16 years - married 6
BD - 1/1/16
His divorce final 7/16
Married OW - 7/17
a consistent semi-vanisher in the same small town

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #15 on: November 02, 2017, 11:04:58 PM »
Happy birthday Thunder! I’m joining the list of early November bdays too, a popular time...conceived on/around Valentine’s Day 😂
Me 45
H 49
3 young adult kids
BD December 2013, left home August 2014, D June 2018
OW 17 years younger

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #16 on: November 02, 2017, 11:28:06 PM »
Happy birthday from me too Thunder.
I hope you have a perfect day, you deserve it  ;D
Married - 19,5 Years pre BD
Together - 21,5 Years
Me: 45
W: 45 (Acts 25)
BD 1: 10.01.2017
BD 2: 24.02.2017 OM 28 (now 30) Trainings partner. W is actually getting People to accept them.
2 Sons - 19 & 21
1 Dogs and a cat.
Own home . Sold!
Divorce Date 21.08.2018
T1  http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8671.0

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #17 on: November 03, 2017, 10:52:33 AM »
You guys are awesome!

Thank everyone for all the nice b-day wishes. :)

(I know still...it's coming this afternoon.  Ugh)
A quote from a recovered MLCer: 
"From my experience if my H had let me go a long time ago, and stop pressuring me, begging, and pleading and just let go I possibly would have experienced my awakening sooner than I did."

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #18 on: November 03, 2017, 12:20:21 PM »
I am a little late, but HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! 

Attaching
Me: 43
One who abandoned : 43
Married: 19, Together: 20
D22, D19, D18

BD: May 6, 2017

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #19 on: November 03, 2017, 12:33:59 PM »
Never too late, Saving.  Thank you.
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A quote from a recovered MLCer: 
"From my experience if my H had let me go a long time ago, and stop pressuring me, begging, and pleading and just let go I possibly would have experienced my awakening sooner than I did."

 

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