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My Story Reconnecting Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #20 on: November 03, 2017, 12:37:00 PM »
Happy Birthday!

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #21 on: November 03, 2017, 01:18:18 PM »
Happy Birthday ;D

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #22 on: November 03, 2017, 01:26:21 PM »
And a big happy birthday from me too Thunder. Hope you have/had a great day and did lots of fabulous things to celebrate.
Me: 50
H: 40
S19, D15
Together for 19 years
BDay in 2004, 2011 and now March 5 2017
Ran away on 5 March BD
No OW
Returned home 'underdone' 1 July 2017.
Left again 22 October 2017.
H - Silent and non-communicative

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #23 on: November 03, 2017, 03:44:37 PM »
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MY MENTOR, MY FRIEND ... OMG ... I am at a loss of words right now, but please know you were there for me from the very start and you are an AMAZING MENTOR....

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ...   As you know, it is my husband's birthday also, so something good has to come of this.

 :-* :-*

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #24 on: November 03, 2017, 05:06:35 PM »
Happy birthday, Thunder.  :)
Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together. (Marilyn Monroe)

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #25 on: November 03, 2017, 07:45:57 PM »
Thank you Anjae, Mourning, Wonder, Mae and Never.

Never, thank you so much for your kind words.  Us Scorpio's are kind to hard to deal with sometimes.  Hope your H is doing good.  ;D
A quote from a recovered MLCer: 
"From my experience if my H had let me go a long time ago, and stop pressuring me, begging, and pleading and just let go I possibly would have experienced my awakening sooner than I did."

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #26 on: November 04, 2017, 07:13:14 AM »
Happy birthday, Thunder!  I hope you had a great day.  Your support and advice throughout the years has been extremely valuable to me.  ♥️
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D-13
S-10
D-6

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #27 on: November 05, 2017, 01:18:46 PM »
Thank you Rose, I am following along with your story.
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A quote from a recovered MLCer: 
"From my experience if my H had let me go a long time ago, and stop pressuring me, begging, and pleading and just let go I possibly would have experienced my awakening sooner than I did."

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #28 on: November 08, 2017, 02:05:31 PM »
Happy Belated Birthday Thunder!

Yes, us Scorpio's are definitely hard to deal w/sometimes!!

Thank you for all that you do and your wonderful words of wisdom!  Attaching!!
Me - 49
H - 50
D8; SS26
Alienator: Yes, OW, PA
BD1: 03/16
BD2: 05/16 - Leaves home & moves in w/OW
07/16: Comes home
BD3: 08/16 - Leaves home again & moves back in w/OW
08/16 - Filed for divorce
04/17 - Awarded sole physical & legal custody of D
08/17 - Legally separated
11/17 - OW kicks H out - H is hospitalized shortly thereafter and turns to me for support
12/17 - H starts talking to OW again
1/18 - H moves back in w/OW
"You got me, I'm cornered, my back to the wall , no bed of roses, ain't no bed at all, I'm walkin' the wire, I stumble and fall, I got the message but I ain't gonna crawl"...Comin' Under Fire by Def Leppard

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Re: Life in a way-3
« Reply #29 on: November 08, 2017, 02:51:30 PM »
Aw thank you Bitty.

Welcome aboard, fellow Scorpio.
My X is a Scorpio too...so I agree.  Hard to deal with but a lot to love.

I hope things are going good for you and your D.  I see you trying to catch up on everyone's thread.   :)
Nice.
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"From my experience if my H had let me go a long time ago, and stop pressuring me, begging, and pleading and just let go I possibly would have experienced my awakening sooner than I did."

 

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