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« Reply #100 on: April 30, 2018, 07:43:29 AM »
As we get closer to a potential meetup at the end of June, shall we see a show of hands if you have booked your accommodation?  Remember, look for action, not words!  ;D



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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #101 on: April 30, 2018, 07:50:25 AM »
I was waiting to hear if there was a specific place(s) where everyone is trying to stay.
10.29.17 BD-Moved out to OW/A began in  6.17
3.5.18 OW moved away/H moved in with F
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #102 on: April 30, 2018, 09:14:40 AM »
A few have agreed that the Holiday Inn, Toronto downtown, 30 Carlton st, was a good meeting place for our group.  Any accommodation at this place or a hotel/AirBnB nearby would be good.  If anyone wants to share a room to share the cost, this thread maybe be a good place to ‘advertise’.

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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #103 on: May 01, 2018, 10:10:51 AM »
I still want to come. I'll have to wait and see how mom is doing, to make sure that my sister will be able to take care of her while I'm gone.
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #104 on: May 01, 2018, 10:20:29 AM »
Sorry, all, I've been fantasising about it but XH's recent shenanigans have delayed me getting hold of house funds for a few months yet. I'll just look forward to hearing all about it from over the pond  :)
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #105 on: May 01, 2018, 11:25:53 AM »
I guess it depends on whether people want to be near the airport or downtown.  They are not close at all.  Once people decidewhich area they want then it would be easier to pick a date. And what is the date?  Lol
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #106 on: May 01, 2018, 01:53:33 PM »
I have to work Tuesday througt Thursday which would only give me two days :(
Can we extend it until at least July 1st or 2nd?

Any possibilities?

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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #107 on: May 01, 2018, 06:15:45 PM »
just doing some comparison and hotel shopping . As previously mentioned by Acorn  ...the Holiday Inn on Carlton

https://www.ihg.com/holidayinn/hotels/us/en/toronto/yyzct/hoteldetail#

It is downtown @ 218.00 a night ( and that can change )  . Close by ( for those who want to sightsee) is  CN Tower, Ripley's Aquarium, Royal Ontario Museum.



OR ... Hotels close to airport ( shuttle from airport to hotel ) is 162.00 ( but that can change)

http://doubletree3.hilton.com/en/hotels/ontario/doubletree-by-hilton-toronto-airport-YTOAPDT/index.html
close to Canada Wonderland, Square 1(shopping )  and woodbine Casino.

OR

http://www.hitorontoairport.ca/accommodations/guest-rooms.php   ( shuttle from airport as well)

150.00per night ...Has Perkins, resturants all around. Can shuttle back to airport and train downtown for those who want to do that .


If there was a final count , a call could be made to see if there is a discount etc .



So, and this is a total guess ... Wed June 27th until Sunday July 1st  ( I have no real idea the actual dates people want )...


Best to check out these webpages ... or any others if you like ... and see what you all think . This will be a bit of a challenge to organize !! LOL!

NOTE: Any hotel rate can change ...until it is booked.  Also need to remember July 1st is Canada Day and the cost might skyrocket on this particular weekend ... ugh!

Maybe early july ( away from Canada Day) is a better idea... just throwing that out there for consideration... it does not matter a bit to me .   


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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #108 on: May 01, 2018, 06:23:10 PM »
If we can get ACTUAL dates and confirm ACTUAL number of people... we can call and see if there are group rates etc .
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Re: Meet up near Toronto?
« Reply #109 on: May 01, 2018, 07:44:47 PM »
I was hoping to attend but the price of airfare will eliminate that possibility.   :'(
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