"I learn that being loved means nothing, and able to love means everything."
Hermann Hesse
I can now see that. If you are able to love, that means you are alive." As much as you able to love that much you alive. Not only other human being, it is about world and life = love. We have to be able to love, nothing else matters really... If someone else love us, feels good and is not up to us is up to them. So love is divine and eternal.