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MLC Monster just sharing a good read!
#80: April 04, 2014, 07:36:47 AM
Not sure if anyone of you have read this but its funny and so relatable.

http://midlifeclub.com/midlife-for-dummies.htm
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Re: MLC for dummies
#81: April 04, 2014, 08:00:24 AM
AGREED!!!  If I ever doubted my W is in MLC, this confirms!  Has hit almost all if not all points.
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Re: MLC for dummies
#82: April 04, 2014, 08:27:42 AM
Seriously?? That is my life....pretty much to a tee!
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Re: MLC for dummies
#83: May 31, 2014, 10:37:52 AM
Bumping this, as I just came across it in the back corridors of the forum and it's really good for a few laughs!
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Re: MLC for dummies
#84: May 31, 2014, 11:18:29 AM
Bumping this, as I just came across it in the back corridors of the forum and it's really good for a few laughs!

Does make one chuckle but at the same time is the grim reality and the way these idiots actually act!


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Re: MLC for dummies
#85: May 31, 2014, 01:50:42 PM
chiming in here
i read this "at the beginning"--now, i'm reading it and laughing.  what a difference 2 years makes. 
all so true--ex h could go through and check all the boxes. i was actually considering printing it and sending it to him via USPS, but i won't. 
ha!!!
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