And after I told him to look up mid life crisis as I thought he was having one (before I came here) he came back with "Well I can see how you would think I'm having one as it all seems to fit, but I'm not having one." I was like If the shoe fits...........
Slow Fade - I wrote a letter to my H, about a month after BD, telling him he was having a mid-life crisis, thinking he would finally understand what was wrong with him as he had complained of being "confused", "half-crazy" and "depressed". It was when I knew what MLC was on a technical level but, did not yet fully understand the irrational/crazy-a$$ behavior that comes with it. If you add the words "I see you have put alot of thought into this" in front of your quote, this is exactly, word-for-word, what my H said to me too. Where do they get this stuff? I am always facinated by the fact that they say identical things!
-OWL
"The Reckoning- Time has got a little bill - get wise while yet you may, for the debit sides increasing in a most alarming way; the things you had no right to do, the things you should have done, they're all put down; it's up to you to pay for every one. So eat, drink and be merry, have a good time if you will, But God help you when the time comes and you have to foot the bill." - Robert Service