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#190: March 27, 2014, 04:57:00 PM
You mean like when H told me months before BD that he thought he was having a MLC and when I brought it up after BD he said, 'well I'm glad you told me that!  Then I won't have to go back to my therapist!  You've CURED ME!'  I was like  :o you just told me a few weeks ago that you were MLC!  and he insisted it wasn't and it was ALL ME! 

I'm sure almost everyone here has had that conversation!   ::)
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Re: MLC script IV
#191: March 28, 2014, 10:30:43 AM
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And after I told him to look up mid life crisis as I thought he was having one (before I came here) he came back with "Well I can see how you would think I'm having one as it all seems to fit, but I'm not having one." I was like  If the shoe fits...........
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Slow Fade - I wrote a letter to my H, about a month after BD, telling him he was having a mid-life crisis, thinking he would finally understand what was wrong with him as he had complained of being "confused", "half-crazy" and "depressed". It was when I knew what MLC was on a technical level but, did not yet fully understand the irrational/crazy-a$$ behavior that comes with it. If you add the words "I see you have put alot of thought into this" in front of your quote, this is exactly, word-for-word, what my H said to me too. Where do they get this stuff? I am always facinated by the fact that they say identical things!

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Re: MLC script IV
#192: March 28, 2014, 10:45:04 AM
Today's Funny...

After h was a no show on Wednesday night (no call, no text) and then was a no show taking the kids to school this am (no call, no text), I texted  him to see if he was planning on taking the kids on Sunday. (He spends 11 hours a week with them-4 in the car ;)) This was the response I received.

"Yup. Same time as last week. I'm solid."

Yes,  you are. Solidy bat$h!t
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Re: MLC script IV
#193: March 28, 2014, 10:57:06 AM
You mean like when H told me months before BD that he thought he was having a MLC and when I brought it up after BD he said, 'well I'm glad you told me that!  Then I won't have to go back to my therapist!  You've CURED ME!'  I was like  :o you just told me a few weeks ago that you were MLC!  and he insisted it wasn't and it was ALL ME! 

I'm sure almost everyone here has had that conversation!   ::)
Pretty much.  At BD, my H was sighing and saying, "I don't know, maybe this is my MLC".  Then when I brought it up a few weeks later, "That has nothing to do with this!".
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Re: MLC script IV
#194: March 28, 2014, 11:30:06 AM

"Yup. Same time as last week. I'm solid."

Yes,  you are. Solidy bat$h!t


 ;D ;D ;D ;D ROTFLMAO!!!

You've CURED ME!'


Again!

 ;D ;D ;D ROTFLMAO

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Re: MLC script IV
#195: March 28, 2014, 12:17:07 PM
That made me laugh too - brilliant!

I sent mine MLC for Dummies (before I found this site, ooops!) he just sat there a day or three later shaking his head saying it's not that, I don't think it's that...
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