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#180: May 18, 2015, 07:48:28 PM
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Sometimes I wish I could get hypnotized so I could erase all thoughts and memories of him from my head for this is so tiring and I am no longer amused or interested in this state of mind, but somehow helpless to go in a different direction...something will not let me.

I know exactly what you are saying.    I have come up with all of the logical reasons to drop the stand.    I've come pretty close to washing my hands of this disaster.

Then?   I feel that there is hope for her.    I feel that, possibly, a divine intervention.     Something..........

It  is like she is in a coma......     And I just wait.
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#181: May 20, 2015, 03:50:25 AM
Everyone said at the start "lbs chooses"... This is what they mean IMO. It a choice to not move on. I'm not sayin it wrong to choose to not move on, but it is a choice. I believe there are few things we can not accomplish if we really WANT to in life. Standing, moving on... Both are choices we makes and sometimes neither feels like a good option.
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#182: May 24, 2015, 12:53:45 PM
This link has been making the rounds on a few threads, but I wanted to get it posted here.

http://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_rethinking_infidelity_a_talk_for_anyone_who_has_ever_loved

This thread has 15 pages, so I'm locking it.  Look for Ted Talk link reposted on the new thread here--

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=7143.0
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Detach and Survive: A Book of Self-Care for the Wives of Midlife Crisis Men
The Journey from Abandonment to Healing, Susan Anderson
Healing the Shame that Binds You, John Bradshaw
The Addictive Personality, Craig Nakken
https://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/chapter-contents.html

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