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Discussion Re: Anyone else have a vanisher? 14
#150: April 03, 2018, 07:19:09 PM
This is the place for me.  I could have written most of the stories.  OW in control, afraid of me........ It's crazy how much they are alike.  It has to be a MLC.   

I have no communication with ex  and I love it.  I can't trust him.  I believe the original OW is gone and an embarrassed broken man is left. He's now pitiful!!!!

I'm Christian and pray that he's bombarded with memories of the life he threw away like garbage.  And that his tally wacker is broken.   
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“I walked a mile with Pleasure;
She chatted all the way;
But left me none the wiser
For all she had to say.

I walked a mile with Sorrow;
And ne’er a word said she;
But, oh! The things I learned from her,          
When Sorrow walked with me.”
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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher? 14
#151: April 03, 2018, 09:19:57 PM
I had a clinging boomerang.  He did that for a few years and then Vanished for 8 months or so because of the OW.  When they broke up, he came back speaking of repair, reconciliation.  But once he realized the kids were wanting accountability as well as me, he ran to find himself a new OW and he was once again, I guess a clinger. 

Until the kids busted him with the latest OW.  It Will be 2 years this summer that I have had any real contact with him.  I don't remember what his voice sounds like.  I have seen him across a hall once within those 2 years.  He has stalled the divorce too.  Just major avoidance.


New thread: http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=10022.0
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