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#100: July 27, 2011, 03:17:49 PM
Hi Hb looks like an early menopause had my bloods done this morning  checked the results by a doctor on my ward this evening....the perks of being a nurse lol  looks like i am in menopause.....and yes it is early according to the doctor..... with my levels being high ive been going through this for at least 3 yrs........ my FSH levels are 87 very high when there supposed to below 30........but i feel better knowing i thought there was something seriously wrong.........i kept thinkng what if ive got a serious illness and dont get to see this journey through to the end  >:( >:( >:(Anyway my h better watch out cos i might consider having my own MLC now ive got the perfect excuse and it appears more fun....... i can spend go out and basically do everything for me me me.......no only joking i wouldnt wish the pain and heartache on anybody........Well maybe o/w but dont think she as any feelings anyway so she wouldn’t spoilt lol.......so now its back to docs next wk for some hormones etc....I will be happy to feel normal again or what ever normal is......maybe me going through this as hindered my progress but once ive got the medication i should be back to my usual form so god help my h lol...........thanks for the info on menopause............oh yeah as soon as h found out i was having tests he blamed himself and said im so sorry for this............wish i had been strong enough to not let it get this far......he also texted this morning saying been really stressed and worried about you and i woke up this morning with a cold sore the biggest one ive ever had.........i nearly texted back and said oh you mean herpes round your mouth have you considered that maybe o/w leaving her nasties but i was nice lol ;D ;D ;D xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 
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Re: Hearts blessing?
#101: July 27, 2011, 09:58:56 PM
Looks like you're on the right track, WGH, I, too, suspected menopause, but we know a God that is bigger than all of us, and He saw ME through, and He'll see you through, too, Sweetheart. :)

Maybe the next time you return to post I'll have the decency to have a thread of my own started, LOL!!

I'm thinking it's time for that..but not tonight..take care of yourself WGH, my thoughts and prayers are with you. :)


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