[Thunder]

Onward, thank you so much for saying that.

I think our relationship is being restored...in a sense.
It's different but we both see it in a positive way.  At least it seems that way.

Time will tell.

[speed racer]

Ready2T (or anyone who knows this)

Earlier in this  thread, you wrote: "If you ever visit DontGiveUp's past threads, he talks about his friend and his wife who ended up remarrying."

How do you search for "DontGiveUp's" past threads, and how do you find that particular thread or a particular persons threads or postings?

I'd love to read the stories, viewpoints, suggestions from other hero spouse members, right now, I just read the titles on the community
board - I guess I just get lucky most of the time when I'm searching.

Thank you all for your continued help and support.
Speed

[Ready2Transform]

I can't remember when his last thread started, but you can find all of his posts here: http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?action=profile;u=115;area=showposts;start=0 (they start with the newest and work backward). I did a search under "members", and I wish I had a better way to direct you than that, but that's what worked best for me!

It's worth it to read all of his posts, though. Very thoughtful, and he's incredibly gifted in knowing what teaching of RCR's best fits.

[MyBrainIsBroken]

Thanks for the link R2T. It feels like I've been shown the entrance to a goldmine. I love this excerpt from his final post.

As to why I am not a regular poster on this site, there a probably several reasons.  First, the forum was never the primary reason I was here.  The articles were and are.  I'm not the kind that needs "advice" from 10 different people, each with their own slant.  I wanted information that I could use to make decisions for myself.  The articles did and do that for me.

I was also not here for advice on how to get a divorce or how to treat/interact with my MLCer.  Those topics are deeply ingrained in who I am.