[Jackolar12]

Popular opinion drives humans.
What if there opinion means nothing to you?

Just a question

Where are you Jackolar?

hi rugged I am pursuing my Ba in midlife crisis WTF, people are getting warmed up over hear to it . I did a stand up talk
Today to a younger crowd and they got me thinking in a different perspective!

[Jackolar12]

You know everyone I agree we get a better chance than the mlcer as we are still grounded people! Stressed, broken, despondent but still esentially whole.

[hawk]

Hi my3 . so he did move back, l'll have to drop into your thread to see the latest.
The h's are so different from the women mlcers.
In saying you don't know him yeah , mine was the same. It actually helped though bc although she is back to a bit like who she use to be , most of that seems long gone these days.
But yeah , l wonder where the hell this could go with the om. 3rd marriages working out stats are almost zero let alone someone with he's record , can't help bur wonder.

J , l'm sorry actually that you are still in this . It's something like l was trying to explain in my thread last night that ex's adventures have given me closure actually and at 4yrs , l just wanted that once and for all and , l got it.
Maybe that's why it didn't really effect me bc l always promised myself l will not go past 4yrs living like this. l wanted it done , one way or another and it has released me once and for all and now l feel l can finally get on with life.
 

[Jackolar12]

Well folks it has been a week since my last post and thank you all for your contributions. I did another midlife crisis talk today in university and the younger element were aware after a weeks intensive study of the MLC YUK!
One told me of her mom and dad recently getting back together after 25 years married to someone else,way to go the outliers are outside of the 5-7 years. Again I think it is all about the goodness of fit of the relationship to last that long and it may relate to the socionomic state of the affair/ remarriage. They are both just turned 50 and quarter life crisis springs to mind. In the USA has Midus undertaken a most recent survey lately?

[Jackolar12]

Anoyher younger person told me of a relative who was sooo prim and proper, a real Judy garland who suddenly ditched her business suit, got tattoos and started an affair with her sons best friend, nothing unusual in MLC land really, just run of the mill replay I think!
Hey Rugged wake up !!! I got the coffee on cowboy!