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#90: August 07, 2019, 12:00:25 AM
I just ordered mine! Love the blurb describing your story!
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Re: My Book - He.Never.Said.A.Word
#91: August 07, 2019, 04:28:58 AM
Thank you so much Milly!!

(And I had a lot of help!).  :)
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#92: August 07, 2019, 04:33:56 AM
Congratulations to you.  It must very satisfying to see it in print after all your hard work.
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#93: August 07, 2019, 04:51:29 AM
Oh my gosh Nah, I am so proud of you.  That's terrific news!!

Can't wait to read the edited book.  From what I could read it sounds very good.   :)
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"From my experience if my H had let me go a long time ago, and stop pressuring me, begging, and pleading and just let go I possibly would have experienced my awakening sooner than I did."

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#94: August 07, 2019, 09:51:39 AM
Thank you Nerissa and Thunder.

A few weeks ago I was seriously contemplating giving up. We kept getting errors when trying to upload the correct revisions, the cover and ISBN code weren’t fitting correctly... ugh

But... “E” figured it out.
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#95: August 07, 2019, 10:00:51 AM
Just bought my copy too!! Very excited. Nah you are amazing!
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Re: My Book - He.Never.Said.A.Word
#96: August 07, 2019, 11:48:57 AM
I just bought my copy too.. I was reading the reviews on Amazon, amazing Nah!! I can't wait to start reading it  ;)
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BD1 - 26th Aug 2017 (Not happy, life has no purpose)
BD2 - 22nd March 2018 (Marriage is over, we want different things, confessed EA with someone 12,000 kms away although "she means nothing")
H moved in with parents 11th May 2018 (I asked him to leave as couldn't handle the EA rubbed all over my face)
H moved abroad 29th Dec 2018, not sure if OW will join him or if they are still in contact.
Confirmation H and OW are together, presume PA  - 3rd June 2019
H gets engaged with OW - Oct 2019
H "finally" asks for divorce - Aug 2020
H marries OW - March 2021.. We are not divorced!
Divorced - Dec 7th 2022

"One of the happiest moments in life is when you find the courage to let go of what you can’t change"

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Re: My Book - He.Never.Said.A.Word
#97: August 07, 2019, 03:14:05 PM
What’s really amazing is the support on here!

Thanks guys.  :D


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#98: August 08, 2019, 08:50:46 PM
Hi nah.
I also have the kindle download, but would love to have a signed book copy! I'm in northern cal if you make it this way. Congrats!!
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#99: August 09, 2019, 04:40:40 AM
Good for you nah

I’m off to order it! (How weird his first girlfriend reading it, maybe she can feature in the follow up!)

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Link to advice by my mentor, Phoenix, on what to tell the children about H leaving - reply #33 (it had a glitch)
https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=9313.30

 

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