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How do your MLCers explain themselves? Check all that apply

I love you but I’m not in love with you.
I'm unhappy and I have to figure out why
I need space
I'm numb, I don't feel anything
It is my time to be selfish.
I need to know if I'm going to miss you
I don't even know why I married you.
We have nothing in common.
You are so controlling.
You were so cold to me.
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#20: April 17, 2011, 03:25:41 PM
I myself, find it interesting when you don't try and retaliate for any of things they do or have done, that somehow there is a conspiracy behind that. You know, "you have motives behind everything you do", wth? Because I'm not beating you over the head with the craziness you have brought upon me and the kids, I have motives? Yep, I got a motive alright...peace...
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Re: MLC SCRIPTS: poll
#21: April 17, 2011, 03:46:23 PM
Quote from: wondering what to do on April 17, 2011, 02:22:33 PM
"It is, what it is"

I said that to my h and he got angry at me! He asked me what it means ;D
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Re: MLC SCRIPTS: poll
#22: April 17, 2011, 04:14:36 PM
I got 'I love you like a sister'
funny how he woke up in the same bed with his arms wrapped around me just before he said it.

I don't have a sister, but i am sure this would not be the norm lol

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Re: MLC SCRIPTS: poll
#23: April 17, 2011, 04:38:53 PM
"It is what it is" Spoken by him was  the last straw months ago.
I got PO'ed BIG time!  >:( >:( >:( >:( I HATE that phrase!!!

Told him "NO It is what you MAKE it" And at that point I told him I had ENOUGH and I was done!!!!

Next day HUGE email about all kinds of stuff..he knew I was on my way out. Even though we are divorced he still wouldn't watch that door close.
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Is it ego or spirit that governs us to question the answers; or answer the questions?
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Re: MLC SCRIPTS: poll
#24: April 17, 2011, 04:55:35 PM
"It is what it is" was the quote on my h's ow fb page.

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Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not unto thy own understanding.
1 Corinthians 13:7 Love bears up under anything and everything that comes, is ever ready to believe the best of every person, it's hopes are fadeless under all circumstances, and it endures everything.
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Re: MLC SCRIPTS: poll
#25: April 17, 2011, 06:36:16 PM
Ask him if he knows with his "It is what it is" That "His heads up his a**"
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Re: MLC SCRIPTS: poll
#26: April 17, 2011, 06:40:57 PM
I'll do that. I would bet he doesn't know that.

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Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the Lord with all thine heart and lean not unto thy own understanding.
1 Corinthians 13:7 Love bears up under anything and everything that comes, is ever ready to believe the best of every person, it's hopes are fadeless under all circumstances, and it endures everything.
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Re: MLC SCRIPTS: poll
#27: April 17, 2011, 06:45:13 PM
yeah... a few more...

I've already grieved over our marriage,
I know the pain that you are feeling....    :o yeah, ok...WTF
My personal favorite.... "I love her like I love Kevin" :o :o :o
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Re: MLC SCRIPTS: poll
#28: April 17, 2011, 07:00:54 PM
B Fly
Hand him a hand mirror and tell him to bend over and have a look  >:(
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Re: MLC SCRIPTS: poll
#29: April 18, 2011, 01:11:16 AM
Ha, yes, I should do a clinging boomerang poll. Mine has also said
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I want to work towards coming back home.
Please don't give up on me.
You do know I have always loved you.
I just can't stay away.
I want to work things out between us.
I miss you.
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