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#10: September 22, 2019, 10:29:03 AM
I hear Arizona is a wonderful place to visit!
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#11: September 22, 2019, 11:20:39 AM
Hi Morte, great idea!! I'm also missing my LBS friends today! There's something very comforting about being surrounded by people just like me.

I would like something in the UK, even a mix like a couple of nights in London, a couple in the Lake District then on to Scotland. Rent one big minivan and drive all together, stop for tea and scones on the way....Lovely pub dinner.....a few antiques?

I'm also thinking there's quite a few in the UK and that will make it affordable. We might need two meet ups, one in the US and one in Europe. As LBSs our finances are tight.
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#12: September 22, 2019, 11:34:23 AM
A beach vacation would be nice
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#13: September 22, 2019, 12:01:10 PM
Well happy to organise something here by the sea in English Suffolk lol
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#14: September 22, 2019, 12:03:05 PM
Quote from: Treasur on September 22, 2019, 12:01:10 PM
Well happy to organise something here by the sea in English Suffolk lol

As long as you bring your  Macintosh and wellies....
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#15: September 22, 2019, 12:14:46 PM
Well it IS raining right now....but our beaches are beautiful  :)
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Re: Ideas for the Next LBS meet up.
#16: September 22, 2019, 12:29:16 PM
Go on a cruise. 
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#17: September 22, 2019, 01:32:41 PM
Quote from: Treasur on September 22, 2019, 07:11:44 AM
Well, Scotland is well worth a visit....and 3am LBS whisky sounds nice  :)

Another vote...

Quote from: Helpingme! on September 22, 2019, 12:29:16 PM
Go on a cruise. 

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#18: September 22, 2019, 01:55:27 PM
Hawaii......

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#19: September 22, 2019, 06:27:53 PM
All of these locations sound wonderful to me. However, I am still digging out from H leaving me nothing and having to rebuild from there. It has been 4 years and my kids and I are finally getting sound footing again. Anyone up for Minnesota? Lutsen (northen) is an absolutely gorgeous spot on Lake Superior.
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