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#20: September 22, 2019, 10:57:21 PM
I'd be up for almost anything - including Minnesota! - as long as it is during school vacation.

Scotland has my attention, and anyone interested in Costa Rica? I have a connection there.
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Re: Ideas for the Next LBS meet up.
#21: September 23, 2019, 08:44:59 AM
I'd go anywhere in the UK and beyond although obviously does depend upon funds...
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Re: Ideas for the Next LBS meet up.
#22: September 23, 2019, 08:56:37 AM
Lutsen's is a beautiful spot, Ruby.  So is Duluth or anywhere along the North Shore.

It would be closer to Stillbaffled. Hey maybe we could swing by and have that pole party.  ;D
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Re: Ideas for the Next LBS meet up.
#23: September 23, 2019, 10:40:01 AM
IF it's in the States...... somewhere with roller-coasters...... fun ones, not the LBS ones.......  8) ;D

I want an after-ride photo of a coaster train upside down full of LBS's screaming.

Wouldn't that be grand?

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Re: Ideas for the Next LBS meet up.
#24: September 23, 2019, 12:42:52 PM
Not many of us Canadians here I suspect.  I am really going to go anywhere ya’all settle on.  And I mean that! I shall drag Tyks with me one way or another !
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Re: Ideas for the Next LBS meet up.
#25: September 23, 2019, 06:52:21 PM
Quote from: Thunder on September 23, 2019, 08:56:37 AM

Lutsen's is a beautiful spot, Ruby.  So is Duluth or anywhere along the North Shore.

It would be closer to Stillbaffled. Hey maybe we could swing by and have that pole party.  ;D


Yes, the North Shore of Lake Superior is quite beautiful.  Duluth, Two Harbors, Lutsen,  Tofte, Silver Bay, Grand Marais......it's a fabulous stretch of shoreline and cities. 

A pole barn party!??!  For sure, but it will have to be spring or fall so we don't get too hot or too cold, or be eaten by mosquitoes! 

I also would be open to anywhere, as long as it isn't early in the fall. 
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Re: Ideas for the Next LBS meet up.
#26: September 23, 2019, 08:38:31 PM
Standing Strong, I think The Mall of America sounds perfect for you!   ;D

http://cdn.mntm.me/cc/b2/46/Mall_of_America-Bloomington-Minnesota-ccb24674cb164fab9030495d970c2053.jpg
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#27: September 24, 2019, 07:33:36 AM
I would be interested in any UK, or Europe destination.   It fits in with my bucket list of trips which I am on a quest to finish while I am still young enough to get travel health insurance that costs less than the trip.   ::)
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#28: September 24, 2019, 08:24:16 AM
Texas ya'll!!!
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