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#10: September 23, 2019, 03:32:50 PM
Very good topic....

1. (I try to be a) Good mother.

2. I have excellent taste (which is why this MLC is so hard to deal with!)

3. I am compassionate for others (even for those who have hurt me over and over again and for whom I really should kick to the curb.)
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Re: 3 great things about you?
#11: September 23, 2019, 08:32:13 PM
1. I am extremely creative
2. I am very loyal
3. I can be very funny ( once apon a time.   Working on regaining that fun - side)
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Re: 3 great things about you?
#12: September 24, 2019, 03:14:10 AM
1. I can find humour in even the darkest situations.

2. I do not let the circumstances of my life change who I am.

3. I value people for their character and heart, not their social standing, financial status, or physical appearance.
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Re: 3 great things about you?
#13: September 24, 2019, 04:26:17 AM
I'm creative, deep thinking and totally loyal.
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#14: September 24, 2019, 05:42:11 AM
  • I have an awesome sense of humor

  • I am compassionate

  • I am very resilient

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Re: 3 great things about you?
#15: September 24, 2019, 10:52:56 AM
I'm loyal.
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Re: 3 great things about you?
#16: September 24, 2019, 01:59:27 PM
Pre Bomb Drop
1. Great listener
2. Positive - Sees the good in everyone
3. Inclusive - built strong community of family and friendships

Now? This is really difficult - after nearly 2.5 years, and a lifetime of joy, extroversion and optimismI am at a low, and feel like a shadow of my former self... but here goes...

1. Dedicated and attentive mom - providing sense of security and normalcy in an upside down world
2. Humility - I’ve been both shocked and humbled by the blows I have taken
3. Faithful - I’ve nurtured my spiritual well-being and leaned in to my faith and relationship with my maker

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Re: 3 great things about you?
#17: September 25, 2019, 12:24:47 PM
I'm understanding/good listener.
I like to help others.
I'm loyal.
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Re: 3 great things about you?
#18: September 25, 2019, 12:32:40 PM
I love this.

-I am an eternal optimist
-my brain is basically a computer processor
Books go in, solutions go out
-I am enthusiastic....about anything I decide to do.
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Re: 3 great things about you?
#19: September 25, 2019, 08:02:13 PM
I loved it! Thank you Treasur!

1. Empathy
2. Creative
3. Beautiful
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