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Discussion MLC Halloween costumes
OP: October 31, 2019, 02:10:35 PM
The MLC'er goes back in time...... so aren't most dressing up tonight?

What is your MLC'er wearing (if you happen to know)?
Wonder if there's any hidden meaning in it?

W never dresses up in costume... but this year she is!!!! LOL!!!!
In a very sexy fairy tale outfit..... and we're handing out candy!!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHH!!!!!

Yeah, maybe I shouldn't laugh, but it's funny as hell to me. Old W would look at that costume and think it was very inappropriate.

At least I can enjoy the view.  8) :P ;D

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Re: MLC Halloween costumes
#1: October 31, 2019, 06:49:50 PM
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Nice post - I have also been wondering what my H was doing tonight and imagining that he will be dressing up with ow and going out to bars and/or parties...
He has NEVER worn a costume in the whole 29 years of marriage!
Yes, before marriage in college, but that's it.

If I find out, I'll try to remember to post.
I won't look on FB, but suspect that some little birdie might let me know...

Enjoy the view my friend!

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Re: MLC Halloween costumes
#2: October 31, 2019, 08:14:56 PM
SS, That is hilarious!  My h said he dressed as a Dr today at work, but did not offer to play Dr or anything when he came over ;)
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Re: MLC Halloween costumes
#3: November 01, 2019, 12:39:14 AM
This is actually kind of creepy.
 Halloween was only 3 weeks after my exH left and he knew that I was going to be taking my daughter and her friends out trick or treating in the neighbourhood.  About an hour into walking around,  I notice this man wearing a full length leather trench coat, a cowboy hat and a full white face mask following us. I know it was my ex because I bought him the coat and the matching hat while we were dating. So.....this "dude" followed us at a fair distance and other adults were noticing him and thinking it was kind of odd. Someone mentioned something about calling the police and he disappeared shortly after.  I did see him again as we were walking home, lurking in the bushes near my house.

Very strange. 
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Re: MLC Halloween costumes
#4: November 01, 2019, 06:20:26 AM
Ember - That IS TRULY TOTALLY CREEPY!!!

Silly MLCers...

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Re: MLC Halloween costumes
#5: November 01, 2019, 08:09:33 AM
Standing Strong,
  I read your post yesterday afternoon and it mad eye decide to go to Walmart buy a sexy costume and dress up myself for passing out candy... Figured MLC H could at least see me looking good. He decided to speak to me just briefly to ask a question and then took his drunk self to bed....

But I felt so good about myself dressing up and had fun! Without your post, I would have passed out candy in my halloween shirt and sweat pants!!!

Thanks of helping make my Halloween better!!! Sometimes it is the little things that help us through!

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Re: MLC Halloween costumes
#6: November 01, 2019, 08:22:47 AM
Ember-Wow!!!  Creepy!!!
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2020-He has continued to help out when asked and be polite.  I do think he questions his choices at times.  I do not believe he has OW.
Oct 2020-He wants to get back together.  I am unsure. 
August 2021-.  He has shown very gradual, but consistent progress.  He moved back home.
December 2022-He has been home for 1 1/2 years reconnecting, in the room with me for several months. I now consider us reconciled.
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Re: MLC Halloween costumes
#7: November 01, 2019, 08:31:48 AM
Caroline -

Great for you!

He'll be thinking, I'm sure.
Although you'll never know...

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Re: MLC Halloween costumes
#8: November 01, 2019, 09:47:05 AM
Right on Caroline!!!

Yes, it is the small things isn't it?
Sea is sooo right too..... oh he was watching, they're always watching..... and listening. But they'll never admit it.


Life has to go on, and they have to figure that out too. Helps them get their crap together.  ;)

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Re: MLC Halloween costumes
#9: November 01, 2019, 11:07:32 AM
Mine seemed to be dressing up as a chav. Was seen wearing a brand new full tracksuit 😂

I was a devil 🤣 which Clington seemed to enjoy as was desperate for photos. Shame that Ow is a horse every day of the year so no fancy outfit for her
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