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#20: January 08, 2020, 02:29:58 AM
Treasur, any specific town you can suggest for us?
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#21: January 08, 2020, 02:48:43 AM
June OK for me too

Some of the schools in the UK could well be on half term holidays until 7th June so best to avoid the first week in June because as Anon says it will be mega expensive.

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#22: January 08, 2020, 03:25:46 AM
Good advice, Enyo.
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#23: January 08, 2020, 04:10:50 AM
Looking in Southwold close to beach, house sleeping about 10-12 for that week, prices range between about £2500 and £3500. Most have about 6 bedrooms so probably 2-4 folks could have own room, others would share. Plus of course there is a nice guest room at my house lol.  They go like hot cakes so would need to book soonish as June is a very popular month. Deposit on booking about £800-£1000. Like this one https://www.suffolk-secrets.co.uk/southwold-surrounding-villages/southwold-cottages/20np-northcliffe?fromdate=2020-06-19&sleeps=%3E12&nights=7&guests=14

Bit further inland slightly cheaper/bigger farmhouses and price range drops by about £500 but more isolated so cars needed as opposed to being able to walk to places.

And it is the week of the arts festival http://www.southwoldartsfestival.co.uk
And we could have a garden party at my allotment lol
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#24: January 08, 2020, 04:26:06 AM
As long as I can either car share (Ofcourse happy to pay petrol) or it’s easy to get to by public transport. I’m okay with any location.
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#25: January 08, 2020, 04:51:16 AM
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#26: January 08, 2020, 05:01:27 AM
Oh wow. They look beautiful.

Would it be likely to be a week long stay? As if we’re looking at let’s say £4000 for 10 people for a week. That’s only around £400 which is a fair price I would say
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#27: January 08, 2020, 05:04:36 AM
Yup prices for a week

And the world famous Aldeburgh festival about 15 mins away https://snapemaltings.co.uk/season/aldeburgh-festival/

Places to visit nearby.....Sutton Hoo, lavenham, bury st Edmunds, Cambridge, norwich
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#28: January 08, 2020, 06:07:14 AM
It all Looks great and Southwold is small and walkable so we can leave have two smaller houses if numbers grow. They won’t be far from each other.  There’s also good stuff on air bnb.
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#29: January 08, 2020, 10:24:05 AM
Wow, what great suggestions from Treasur and the ANON App. From our experience in Tuscany, I'm leaning towards the houses with the most communal seating areas since we will sit and talk. It's not obligatory to talk! I'm sure most of us thought we'd try not to talk about it in Tuscany, but it slips in so it's nice to have enough cosy chairs to do so. I also would push for a sea side house even if it costs more because it means fewer car rentals.

Love the sound of the allotment party, Prosecco allowed I presume! Pink to match my fridge, of course!
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